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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 446667" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>WHere is this coming from - the EMOTIONS of the funeral or his Mother TELLING him ---? FInd out what the source is and THEN have your come to Jesus meeting with him but I would caution you to NOT have the talk just this minute - GIve him some time - YOU are out of Xanax and THEY just lost their Father/Husband and everone is making decisions based on trying to hold together a family they REMEMBER ---based on EMOTIONS......not logic. </p><p>SPACE+TIME =LOGIC......if you jump in right now and say your peace? ESPECIALLY without the dope? YOU are really going to come off as a beasty.......and be remembered for it. </p><p></p><p>Try saying something like -You know what? December is a few months away hon - we'll have to check finances and with the girls and schedules to see if we can make it all work.....lets talk about it after things settle down. (and let things settle down) ----and in the mean time? Find out if MOm is just being clingy and a patootie - or if your husband is just trying to take care of a MOm he thinks is saying things that HE is interpreting as "SHE CAN"T LIVE ALONE, CHRISTMAS IS GOING TO BE SO HARD, HOW AM I GOING TO SURVIVE WITHOUT HIM? BLAH BLAH BLAH - because....they DO survive....they CAN make it....and YOU are getiting yer knickers in a wad for nothing......Christmas is 6 months away - and they just lost Dad....so breath....find some wine - and chill Gill.....</p><p></p><p>Hugs - and drugs.....er...Bugs - LOOK!!!!!! THERE GOES A SWALLOWTAIL and a MONARCH!!!!!!!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 446667, member: 4964"] WHere is this coming from - the EMOTIONS of the funeral or his Mother TELLING him ---? FInd out what the source is and THEN have your come to Jesus meeting with him but I would caution you to NOT have the talk just this minute - GIve him some time - YOU are out of Xanax and THEY just lost their Father/Husband and everone is making decisions based on trying to hold together a family they REMEMBER ---based on EMOTIONS......not logic. SPACE+TIME =LOGIC......if you jump in right now and say your peace? ESPECIALLY without the dope? YOU are really going to come off as a beasty.......and be remembered for it. Try saying something like -You know what? December is a few months away hon - we'll have to check finances and with the girls and schedules to see if we can make it all work.....lets talk about it after things settle down. (and let things settle down) ----and in the mean time? Find out if MOm is just being clingy and a patootie - or if your husband is just trying to take care of a MOm he thinks is saying things that HE is interpreting as "SHE CAN"T LIVE ALONE, CHRISTMAS IS GOING TO BE SO HARD, HOW AM I GOING TO SURVIVE WITHOUT HIM? BLAH BLAH BLAH - because....they DO survive....they CAN make it....and YOU are getiting yer knickers in a wad for nothing......Christmas is 6 months away - and they just lost Dad....so breath....find some wine - and chill Gill..... Hugs - and drugs.....er...Bugs - LOOK!!!!!! THERE GOES A SWALLOWTAIL and a MONARCH!!!!!!!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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