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<blockquote data-quote="savior no more" data-source="post: 681969" data-attributes="member: 19838"><p>Leafy -</p><p>I think the push and pull of wanting a relationship and then turning away from the relationship is the way my Difficult Child stays isolated. When I so desperately want him to be a part of the family he cannot stay around and be a part of. It's only when he can't come around - when he's locked up - that he desperately craves our company. Such a lonely, isolated abandoned spot to live in. I set this up for myself at times in different relationships. So desperately craving one thing I can't have but denying the 99 other things that are sitting at my feet. It to me boils down to the abandonment of self. My son has been taken several times to ER beaten up or overdosed. I cringed when I was doing my clinical's for my FNP every time I went in the ER hoping he would not show up beaten up or overdosed on my shift. Luckily that didn't happen. I also think that in the end it is always the mothers fault - in their eyes and society's. My thoughts of healing detachment for you and healing love to your daughter.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="savior no more, post: 681969, member: 19838"] Leafy - I think the push and pull of wanting a relationship and then turning away from the relationship is the way my Difficult Child stays isolated. When I so desperately want him to be a part of the family he cannot stay around and be a part of. It's only when he can't come around - when he's locked up - that he desperately craves our company. Such a lonely, isolated abandoned spot to live in. I set this up for myself at times in different relationships. So desperately craving one thing I can't have but denying the 99 other things that are sitting at my feet. It to me boils down to the abandonment of self. My son has been taken several times to ER beaten up or overdosed. I cringed when I was doing my clinical's for my FNP every time I went in the ER hoping he would not show up beaten up or overdosed on my shift. Luckily that didn't happen. I also think that in the end it is always the mothers fault - in their eyes and society's. My thoughts of healing detachment for you and healing love to your daughter. [/QUOTE]
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