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<blockquote data-quote="bran155" data-source="post: 241169"><p>Thank you guys.</p><p></p><p>My daughter is not really on probation, she is on TASK. We meet the TASK officer on Friday. It really just oversees her mental health treatment, she must comply with therapy and medications. The TASK officer checks in with her therapist weekly to make sure she is doing what she is supposed to. If not that gets reported back to the judge and she goes back to jail. </p><p></p><p>I would love to let her leave now, however until she is 18 I am legally responsible for her. The DA released her to me so I can't let her go. If she ran on her own that would be a different story. Bye Bye!!! After she turns 18 I will no longer be obligated to report her as she will be an adult. Can't wait!!!</p><p></p><p>The last time she hit me, punched me right in the face, I called the police and wanted to press charges on her for assaulting me and I wanted her taken out of my home that very instant. The cops told me that because she was still under age, they couldn't arrest her, it would be just a domestic dispute. My husband and I actually argued with the cop, to no avail. I think they were just being lazy and did not want to go through the arrest process. If she hits me again and they do nothing I will demand a superior and demand to press charges on her!!!! I almost wish she would hit me, but this time I want her to break my nose or something so that I have a visible injury. </p><p></p><p>Marg, as always your words are so wise. I know that she is not really herself. That is the sad part. I have come a long way though and I refuse to make excuses for her anymore. She does have an illness but she doesn't have to live this way. I no longer allow my empathy for her to navigate how I am going to react to her behaviors. In fact, I think I am all out of empathy!!! </p><p></p><p>Thanks for the support. I swear I got most of my strenght from all of you!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bran155, post: 241169"] Thank you guys. My daughter is not really on probation, she is on TASK. We meet the TASK officer on Friday. It really just oversees her mental health treatment, she must comply with therapy and medications. The TASK officer checks in with her therapist weekly to make sure she is doing what she is supposed to. If not that gets reported back to the judge and she goes back to jail. I would love to let her leave now, however until she is 18 I am legally responsible for her. The DA released her to me so I can't let her go. If she ran on her own that would be a different story. Bye Bye!!! After she turns 18 I will no longer be obligated to report her as she will be an adult. Can't wait!!! The last time she hit me, punched me right in the face, I called the police and wanted to press charges on her for assaulting me and I wanted her taken out of my home that very instant. The cops told me that because she was still under age, they couldn't arrest her, it would be just a domestic dispute. My husband and I actually argued with the cop, to no avail. I think they were just being lazy and did not want to go through the arrest process. If she hits me again and they do nothing I will demand a superior and demand to press charges on her!!!! I almost wish she would hit me, but this time I want her to break my nose or something so that I have a visible injury. Marg, as always your words are so wise. I know that she is not really herself. That is the sad part. I have come a long way though and I refuse to make excuses for her anymore. She does have an illness but she doesn't have to live this way. I no longer allow my empathy for her to navigate how I am going to react to her behaviors. In fact, I think I am all out of empathy!!! Thanks for the support. I swear I got most of my strenght from all of you!! :) [/QUOTE]
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