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<blockquote data-quote="janebrain" data-source="post: 241535" data-attributes="member: 3208"><p>Hi Bran,</p><p>I think it is a great idea to keep track of all this and present it to the TASK force on Friday. You are right, there is no such thing as "emancipation" in NY state. I hope your dtr voluntarily leaves your house when she is 18 (if the TASK force just lets her remain in your home til then). Then quick change the locks and don't let her back in. I remember when our dtr left the state (she was 18) and we saw a lawyer to find out our rights and responsibilities. He said, "pray she stays in New England til she is 21". He said emancipation of an 18-21 yr old could only happen with the child's initiative or if the child leaves the state. And if she came back to the state we were again responsible for her. </p><p></p><p>She did come back to NY but did not want to live by our rules so I was able to kick her out and since it was her choice to not live by our rules we were not considered responsible for her. Of course she couldn't get any social services benefits either but she and the boyfriend managed to survive. She left the state again at age 19 and will be 21 in May so we are almost off the hook now regardless of what she does.</p><p></p><p>Keep us updated, I really feel for you!</p><p></p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="janebrain, post: 241535, member: 3208"] Hi Bran, I think it is a great idea to keep track of all this and present it to the TASK force on Friday. You are right, there is no such thing as "emancipation" in NY state. I hope your dtr voluntarily leaves your house when she is 18 (if the TASK force just lets her remain in your home til then). Then quick change the locks and don't let her back in. I remember when our dtr left the state (she was 18) and we saw a lawyer to find out our rights and responsibilities. He said, "pray she stays in New England til she is 21". He said emancipation of an 18-21 yr old could only happen with the child's initiative or if the child leaves the state. And if she came back to the state we were again responsible for her. She did come back to NY but did not want to live by our rules so I was able to kick her out and since it was her choice to not live by our rules we were not considered responsible for her. Of course she couldn't get any social services benefits either but she and the boyfriend managed to survive. She left the state again at age 19 and will be 21 in May so we are almost off the hook now regardless of what she does. Keep us updated, I really feel for you! Jane [/QUOTE]
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