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<blockquote data-quote="bran155" data-source="post: 241702"><p>Thank you guys.</p><p></p><p>She didn't come home last night. She called at about 1 am and said she was sleeping out. I explained to her that she is way past her COURT given curfew and needs to come home. She argued and said that she wasn't. Okay. She came home this morning after my sister unlocked the door to drive my nephew to school. I was upstairs getting my son ready for school and she snuck in, I didn't even hear her walk in the door. She slept most of the day. When she did wake up she went into the nasty bathroom and got ready. She was telling me that she was leaving until Sunday. I told her she had to stay here until she is 18, then she is more than free to go. She tried very hard to bait me into an all out fight but I resisted by giving her funny sarcastic remarks instead. She put her coat on and left. Good bye!!!! </p><p></p><p>There is no question that she will be leaving when she is 18. I think she will go on her own. She doesn't want to follow any rules. I hope she does go on her own. But I do feel strong enough at this point to put her out. She just has zero respect for any of us and we are all so tired of her. I am sick of being cursed at by her. Then she turns around and asks for things. She is unbelievable. She truly feels so entitled. She feels as though we are all supposed to do what she wants so that the day will go smoothly. The other night. She was trying to get into my sister's apartment because I was down there and she wanted the phone. I was using it. I locked the door, she stood in the hallway cursing at both me and my sister, banging on the door demanding the phone. She called us every name in the book and then some. Really horrible things. Then she said that we should know that she has problems and we should do our best to help her out, if we give her the phone then she will calm down. UUURRRGGGHHH!!!! </p><p></p><p>The difference in my life is not her, it's me. I have detached to the point that I just do not allow her to hurt me anymore. It is very stressful to live this way but I am no longer falling apart because of it. I really can't stand her anymore. I no longer want to help her. I no longer have the drive to fight for her, my drive is now to shield the rest of us from her. </p><p></p><p>Crazy,</p><p>Isn't that nuts? That's exactly what I said to the cop, if she hit someone else in the face she would be arrested, why is it that she can hit me and get away with it. Of course they didn't really have an answer for that!!!!</p><p></p><p>Janna,</p><p>I with ya, I just don't give a s**t anymore either!!! </p><p></p><p>Jane,</p><p>What is up with the empire state? They just couldn't give us that out, hu???</p><p></p><p>Klmno,</p><p>Thank you hun. Truthfully I don't know how I am doing this either. With all that is going on I am just taking it one day at a time. And today is a really good day. I feel pretty good today. So far anyway. It's only 3:30 in the afternoon though, anything could happen. lol I hope you are doing okay!!!</p><p></p><p>Marg and Terry,</p><p>Watch that calendar because we are going to have a cyber party on the 16th!!!! lol</p><p></p><p>Susie,</p><p>I love that idea, you bring the drinks to the party!!! lol</p><p></p><p>Shawna <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bran155, post: 241702"] Thank you guys. She didn't come home last night. She called at about 1 am and said she was sleeping out. I explained to her that she is way past her COURT given curfew and needs to come home. She argued and said that she wasn't. Okay. She came home this morning after my sister unlocked the door to drive my nephew to school. I was upstairs getting my son ready for school and she snuck in, I didn't even hear her walk in the door. She slept most of the day. When she did wake up she went into the nasty bathroom and got ready. She was telling me that she was leaving until Sunday. I told her she had to stay here until she is 18, then she is more than free to go. She tried very hard to bait me into an all out fight but I resisted by giving her funny sarcastic remarks instead. She put her coat on and left. Good bye!!!! There is no question that she will be leaving when she is 18. I think she will go on her own. She doesn't want to follow any rules. I hope she does go on her own. But I do feel strong enough at this point to put her out. She just has zero respect for any of us and we are all so tired of her. I am sick of being cursed at by her. Then she turns around and asks for things. She is unbelievable. She truly feels so entitled. She feels as though we are all supposed to do what she wants so that the day will go smoothly. The other night. She was trying to get into my sister's apartment because I was down there and she wanted the phone. I was using it. I locked the door, she stood in the hallway cursing at both me and my sister, banging on the door demanding the phone. She called us every name in the book and then some. Really horrible things. Then she said that we should know that she has problems and we should do our best to help her out, if we give her the phone then she will calm down. UUURRRGGGHHH!!!! The difference in my life is not her, it's me. I have detached to the point that I just do not allow her to hurt me anymore. It is very stressful to live this way but I am no longer falling apart because of it. I really can't stand her anymore. I no longer want to help her. I no longer have the drive to fight for her, my drive is now to shield the rest of us from her. Crazy, Isn't that nuts? That's exactly what I said to the cop, if she hit someone else in the face she would be arrested, why is it that she can hit me and get away with it. Of course they didn't really have an answer for that!!!! Janna, I with ya, I just don't give a s**t anymore either!!! Jane, What is up with the empire state? They just couldn't give us that out, hu??? Klmno, Thank you hun. Truthfully I don't know how I am doing this either. With all that is going on I am just taking it one day at a time. And today is a really good day. I feel pretty good today. So far anyway. It's only 3:30 in the afternoon though, anything could happen. lol I hope you are doing okay!!! Marg and Terry, Watch that calendar because we are going to have a cyber party on the 16th!!!! lol Susie, I love that idea, you bring the drinks to the party!!! lol Shawna :) [/QUOTE]
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