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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 242023" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Bran, No need to keep repeating yourself. She heard you the first time. She is just trying to get you to react. Ignore her let her leave and then report her. I went through exactly the same kind of abuse you are going through. First with my difficult child daughter who we finally put out when she threw a water glass at my head and then a few years later with my difficult child son who ended up breaking my rib. It was only then that all the professionals said that I should have him arrested. Prior to that he had thrown things at me, stole from me, trashed the house, broke all our electronics, shoplifted, got drunk and disordly under aged, punched husband repeatedly on several occasions, and the list goes on and on. We couldn't control him and no one would help. When he did break my rib the cop came in and said "You don't look very hurt, what did you do to him?" (I was sitting on the floor painting woodwork when he kicked me. He was raging because he wanted to go to a party and he was on probation and court ordered curfew and I told him to sit down and we would discuss it like adults) I just never understand why they think these abusive children are the victims instead of the other way around. </p><p></p><p>Fortunately for me and husband by the time difficult child 2 got to his eighteenth birthday we were living in a state where we could put him out and into a group home. difficult child 1 we had to be responsible for until she turned 21 and then there were no services unless she wanted them so we had to pay for an apartment and most of her support for another year until she got a job. </p><p></p><p>Both of them almost destroyed us financially and both of them kept us living in fear for years before we could be free of the daily abuse. I would often have to choose between my possessions and my sanity because if I left they would destroy my possessions but if I stayed they would continue to abuse me. A rock and a hard place. I can never go back there and sometimes I think that I am the only one who knows and remembers how it really was. All I can say is that I will most likely go to heaven because I have already been to hell and back again. I'm sure I'll see you and many other board members there (heaven) for the same reason. </p><p></p><p>As far as the letter to the judge goes it did help us but not until difficult child went to court. Then the judge read our letter and his psychiatric history and the recommendations for a Residential Treatment Center (RTC) by his therapist. She ordered him into the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for 18 months. Unfortunately he ran away and ended up in jail anyway.</p><p></p><p>I'm hoping your daughter will get the help she needs and accept it and thus turn herself around. Sending you many (((((hugs))))) -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 242023, member: 2315"] Bran, No need to keep repeating yourself. She heard you the first time. She is just trying to get you to react. Ignore her let her leave and then report her. I went through exactly the same kind of abuse you are going through. First with my difficult child daughter who we finally put out when she threw a water glass at my head and then a few years later with my difficult child son who ended up breaking my rib. It was only then that all the professionals said that I should have him arrested. Prior to that he had thrown things at me, stole from me, trashed the house, broke all our electronics, shoplifted, got drunk and disordly under aged, punched husband repeatedly on several occasions, and the list goes on and on. We couldn't control him and no one would help. When he did break my rib the cop came in and said "You don't look very hurt, what did you do to him?" (I was sitting on the floor painting woodwork when he kicked me. He was raging because he wanted to go to a party and he was on probation and court ordered curfew and I told him to sit down and we would discuss it like adults) I just never understand why they think these abusive children are the victims instead of the other way around. Fortunately for me and husband by the time difficult child 2 got to his eighteenth birthday we were living in a state where we could put him out and into a group home. difficult child 1 we had to be responsible for until she turned 21 and then there were no services unless she wanted them so we had to pay for an apartment and most of her support for another year until she got a job. Both of them almost destroyed us financially and both of them kept us living in fear for years before we could be free of the daily abuse. I would often have to choose between my possessions and my sanity because if I left they would destroy my possessions but if I stayed they would continue to abuse me. A rock and a hard place. I can never go back there and sometimes I think that I am the only one who knows and remembers how it really was. All I can say is that I will most likely go to heaven because I have already been to hell and back again. I'm sure I'll see you and many other board members there (heaven) for the same reason. As far as the letter to the judge goes it did help us but not until difficult child went to court. Then the judge read our letter and his psychiatric history and the recommendations for a Residential Treatment Center (RTC) by his therapist. She ordered him into the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for 18 months. Unfortunately he ran away and ended up in jail anyway. I'm hoping your daughter will get the help she needs and accept it and thus turn herself around. Sending you many (((((hugs))))) -RM [/QUOTE]
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