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She is just so hard to love
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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 201492" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Hon, threats can also be reported. Let her know that. Nice of her to let you know that she won't actually hit you, though.</p><p> </p><p>Honestly, you wouldn't be much of a mother if you didn't feel sad at your daughter's choices. We had so many dreams for our kids when they were little. We see so much potential that is being thrown away. We love them so much and that love is rejected over and over. If it didn't hurt, you wouldn't be human.</p><p> </p><p>I've been lucky. I've never hated my child. I've hated her actions, choices and behavior but not her personally, although it was close a couple of times. I know I've felt guilty when I've disliked her. I hated myself for counting the days until she moved out. She's my daughter, my heart. I'm supposed to love her and want her to live with me. Now that she's gone, I can enjoy her visits and her. I don't have to be involved in the temper tantrums, the rudeness, the bad choices. We talk, laugh, do things together. When I'm tired of her messes or she gets the attitude, I simply tell her it is time for her to go back home. Works for now, anyway.</p><p> </p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 201492, member: 3626"] Hon, threats can also be reported. Let her know that. Nice of her to let you know that she won't actually hit you, though. Honestly, you wouldn't be much of a mother if you didn't feel sad at your daughter's choices. We had so many dreams for our kids when they were little. We see so much potential that is being thrown away. We love them so much and that love is rejected over and over. If it didn't hurt, you wouldn't be human. I've been lucky. I've never hated my child. I've hated her actions, choices and behavior but not her personally, although it was close a couple of times. I know I've felt guilty when I've disliked her. I hated myself for counting the days until she moved out. She's my daughter, my heart. I'm supposed to love her and want her to live with me. Now that she's gone, I can enjoy her visits and her. I don't have to be involved in the temper tantrums, the rudeness, the bad choices. We talk, laugh, do things together. When I'm tired of her messes or she gets the attitude, I simply tell her it is time for her to go back home. Works for now, anyway. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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