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<blockquote data-quote="Blondie" data-source="post: 125262" data-attributes="member: 70"><p>Dear JoG</p><p></p><p>I have been just exactly where you are, and I do mean EXACTLY.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes the most exhausting, serenity-shattering part of the entire situation(s), including any Behavioural Contract we are trying to put in place with-our difficult children, is Putting One In Place For The husband!! Arrgh.</p><p></p><p>My husband folds like a house of cards.</p><p></p><p>Admittedly, I have been known to do likewise, especially when it involves difficult child's health and safety. With the unfortunate and in fact nearly-intolerable result that we have paid all of her expenses and all of her "woops!"-es, ever since she moved out. If I had known then what I know now, I would have put my dainty size 8-or-9 foot not only DOWN, but probably up a few backsides as well.</p><p></p><p>Be prepared for the "Divide and Conquer" tactics to go into effect sooner rather than later.</p><p></p><p>Be strong honey. And Don't let H pull the wool over your eyes either! lol</p><p></p><p>But ~sigh~ it does get tiresome having to be The Enforcer all the time, no?</p><p></p><p>Many hugs & much empathy,</p><p></p><p>Blondie, still wearing that T-shirt<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/furious.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":furious:" title="furious :furious:" data-shortname=":furious:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Blondie, post: 125262, member: 70"] Dear JoG I have been just exactly where you are, and I do mean EXACTLY. Sometimes the most exhausting, serenity-shattering part of the entire situation(s), including any Behavioural Contract we are trying to put in place with-our difficult children, is Putting One In Place For The husband!! Arrgh. My husband folds like a house of cards. Admittedly, I have been known to do likewise, especially when it involves difficult child's health and safety. With the unfortunate and in fact nearly-intolerable result that we have paid all of her expenses and all of her "woops!"-es, ever since she moved out. If I had known then what I know now, I would have put my dainty size 8-or-9 foot not only DOWN, but probably up a few backsides as well. Be prepared for the "Divide and Conquer" tactics to go into effect sooner rather than later. Be strong honey. And Don't let H pull the wool over your eyes either! lol But ~sigh~ it does get tiresome having to be The Enforcer all the time, no? Many hugs & much empathy, Blondie, still wearing that T-shirt:furious: [/QUOTE]
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