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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 325266" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>So we've learned a lot from this go-round haven't we? Remember when I told you it was sad that we pay such a high price to be THIS educated? This is what I meant. It's a good thing and a bad thing to be this smart. The bad thing is obvious - that you or Tink have to live through psychopathic SF and her rhetoric at all, the good thing? You'll never ever suffer through it again as long as you live. Once is more than enough. </p><p></p><p>Dudes Daddy told him I was dead. Lovely. So did Gma. Small wonder why I nearly passed out when he named the puppy after his dearly departed Gma. The flippin' nerve. I could be the president of overcomers anonymous. You would make a lovely VP. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /> - If you don't find some humor somewhere Kitteh you will. esplode.....yes - eSplode. eXplode is for divorce. as in ex. </p><p></p><p>You want to know how someone can be so cruel to a child? I have many many answers. None of which I could share openly here. Most of which you already know the answers to. We just hope - because We are human and have a soul, and have a conscience that that ONE ripping tear, or that ONE cry in the night or that one scream in pain from a child we love would get through that stupid skull and seemingly armor plated thick skin of the father (or in some case Mother) and make a pin prick of notice. Just some minute indication that they felt anything at all for a child we love so very much. Something that would indicate to them or us that they are 1/2, 1/4 or a tiny sliver of human piece of them...and yet time after time? Nothing. Like they are inhuman. </p><p></p><p>We keep a light on, so to speak hoping they will change or care - and they rarely if ever do. We'd all be a lot better off if we'd just stop pretending they could or will ever have emotions for anyone. They are psychopaths, narcissistic, sociopathic people and they are manipulative. It's a game to them and we fell for it. Trying to explain that to your kid? Not easy. They see that other kids have Moms and Dads and of course everyone always wants something other than what they have until they don't have what they want and then they find themselves thinking that wasn't maybe so bad, or making their own life and having something better. </p><p></p><p>In Tinks case, Dude's case? We married Toads. We got great kids, who will have to be hurt a lot worse than at 8 and 19 to ever appreciate if ever what we know to be true about their Fathers. </p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry she's hurting again, but you're right to stop contact between her an SF. I know one thing - you can't make anyone love someone else. If toad doesn't love himself, it doesn't leave much room for Tink. </p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 325266, member: 4964"] So we've learned a lot from this go-round haven't we? Remember when I told you it was sad that we pay such a high price to be THIS educated? This is what I meant. It's a good thing and a bad thing to be this smart. The bad thing is obvious - that you or Tink have to live through psychopathic SF and her rhetoric at all, the good thing? You'll never ever suffer through it again as long as you live. Once is more than enough. Dudes Daddy told him I was dead. Lovely. So did Gma. Small wonder why I nearly passed out when he named the puppy after his dearly departed Gma. The flippin' nerve. I could be the president of overcomers anonymous. You would make a lovely VP. :raspberry-tounge: - If you don't find some humor somewhere Kitteh you will. esplode.....yes - eSplode. eXplode is for divorce. as in ex. You want to know how someone can be so cruel to a child? I have many many answers. None of which I could share openly here. Most of which you already know the answers to. We just hope - because We are human and have a soul, and have a conscience that that ONE ripping tear, or that ONE cry in the night or that one scream in pain from a child we love would get through that stupid skull and seemingly armor plated thick skin of the father (or in some case Mother) and make a pin prick of notice. Just some minute indication that they felt anything at all for a child we love so very much. Something that would indicate to them or us that they are 1/2, 1/4 or a tiny sliver of human piece of them...and yet time after time? Nothing. Like they are inhuman. We keep a light on, so to speak hoping they will change or care - and they rarely if ever do. We'd all be a lot better off if we'd just stop pretending they could or will ever have emotions for anyone. They are psychopaths, narcissistic, sociopathic people and they are manipulative. It's a game to them and we fell for it. Trying to explain that to your kid? Not easy. They see that other kids have Moms and Dads and of course everyone always wants something other than what they have until they don't have what they want and then they find themselves thinking that wasn't maybe so bad, or making their own life and having something better. In Tinks case, Dude's case? We married Toads. We got great kids, who will have to be hurt a lot worse than at 8 and 19 to ever appreciate if ever what we know to be true about their Fathers. I'm so sorry she's hurting again, but you're right to stop contact between her an SF. I know one thing - you can't make anyone love someone else. If toad doesn't love himself, it doesn't leave much room for Tink. I'm so sorry. [/QUOTE]
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