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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 239630" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Cr@p Shawna........I am stunned as well. Speechless.</p><p></p><p>You know, at this point I might take the lawyers advice and do absolutely nothing. I certainly would not give her money, but I am pretty sure I would not set limits. She will not have any outside limits soon enough when she is 18........and so I do not think enforcing limits for 2 weeks, and putting you and your easy child in danger is worth it. I would just let her do her thing, and close the door permanently when she is of legal age. Any chance you can just go on vacation for 2 weeks?</p><p></p><p>I know you love her very much......and I am so, so sorry.</p><p>But this is all a matter of semantics at this point. The only reason the court sent her back to you is because of her age, right? If she was 18 she would have been simply released to no one?</p><p>If so, I think that you just need to ignore her until she can become legally on her own and become legally responsible for her own choices. That is the only thing that will change her, not you being a responsible parent. You have already been there done that, and imparted all you can to her for now.</p><p></p><p>Please post all you want. We are here for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 239630, member: 3301"] Cr@p Shawna........I am stunned as well. Speechless. You know, at this point I might take the lawyers advice and do absolutely nothing. I certainly would not give her money, but I am pretty sure I would not set limits. She will not have any outside limits soon enough when she is 18........and so I do not think enforcing limits for 2 weeks, and putting you and your easy child in danger is worth it. I would just let her do her thing, and close the door permanently when she is of legal age. Any chance you can just go on vacation for 2 weeks? I know you love her very much......and I am so, so sorry. But this is all a matter of semantics at this point. The only reason the court sent her back to you is because of her age, right? If she was 18 she would have been simply released to no one? If so, I think that you just need to ignore her until she can become legally on her own and become legally responsible for her own choices. That is the only thing that will change her, not you being a responsible parent. You have already been there done that, and imparted all you can to her for now. Please post all you want. We are here for you. [/QUOTE]
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