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She's moving into an apartment with the boyfriend
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 465345" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Malika I am not being callous, I really am a very sensitive person who considers people's feelings almost to my detriment. However if smoking and allowing her boyfriend to smoke around her and eating only junk food and not getting any pre-natal care is being responsible I'm clueless. I'm not being a jerk when I say that if there is anyone who shouldn't have a child it's her. Anyone that knows her intimately would say the same thing. She is having this baby for her, so that she has someone to love, so that she can say she didn't give it up for adoption like her bm did, not so that this child has a chance in life. Her background and his is a clear indication that this child will have a very very difficult struggle in life, a struggle that she is totally unequipped to handle. She has never done anything in her life that didn't feel good at the time and this is no different. She is doing this because she now has all the attention on herself, and she thrives on that. This guy is just a series of guys she has had in her life over the years, she has no connection to him and he is a felon and she is moving in with him. In my way of thinking that isn't taking care of her baby.</p><p></p><p>I have traveled this road many years now and there is nothing that can overcome the heredity that you are born with. husband and I were naive in thinking there was but there isn't. In spite of all that we love her with all our heart and we are sick that she is making the choices she is but they are her choices and all we can do now is watch.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 465345, member: 59"] Malika I am not being callous, I really am a very sensitive person who considers people's feelings almost to my detriment. However if smoking and allowing her boyfriend to smoke around her and eating only junk food and not getting any pre-natal care is being responsible I'm clueless. I'm not being a jerk when I say that if there is anyone who shouldn't have a child it's her. Anyone that knows her intimately would say the same thing. She is having this baby for her, so that she has someone to love, so that she can say she didn't give it up for adoption like her bm did, not so that this child has a chance in life. Her background and his is a clear indication that this child will have a very very difficult struggle in life, a struggle that she is totally unequipped to handle. She has never done anything in her life that didn't feel good at the time and this is no different. She is doing this because she now has all the attention on herself, and she thrives on that. This guy is just a series of guys she has had in her life over the years, she has no connection to him and he is a felon and she is moving in with him. In my way of thinking that isn't taking care of her baby. I have traveled this road many years now and there is nothing that can overcome the heredity that you are born with. husband and I were naive in thinking there was but there isn't. In spite of all that we love her with all our heart and we are sick that she is making the choices she is but they are her choices and all we can do now is watch. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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