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She's so rude lately!!!!! LONG-SORRY
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<blockquote data-quote="Loving Abbey 2" data-source="post: 141860" data-attributes="member: 4845"><p>Thank you everyone for your support. </p><p> </p><p>Marg-I think you are right. I am seeing my own therapist, I'm trying to find one for difficult child that actually takes my insurance. I just want everything to be okay again. Things were in such chaos for a while before I got rid of him, that I am just tring to get some control over our lives back. And I realize controlling difficult child is not going to help anything. And I have to keep in mind that she is going through a lot too. </p><p> </p><p>My Ex is her step father but I think a lot of the same things apply. I'm getting to the point where I think it may be better to just have him completely out of our lives--not seeing difficult child at all. That will be hard on difficult child, but I can't imagine that this is any better. I'm so angry at myself for getting us into this situation and I feel guilty for letting difficult child get attached to someone who turned out to be verbally and emotionally abusive. Like I should have seen the signs, but I didn't. I'm working on that. </p><p> </p><p>I have the explosive child book, I haven't read it since difficult child was about 4 or 5, so I could use another read. I'll keep you all posted. </p><p> </p><p>Thanks again</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Loving Abbey 2, post: 141860, member: 4845"] Thank you everyone for your support. Marg-I think you are right. I am seeing my own therapist, I'm trying to find one for difficult child that actually takes my insurance. I just want everything to be okay again. Things were in such chaos for a while before I got rid of him, that I am just tring to get some control over our lives back. And I realize controlling difficult child is not going to help anything. And I have to keep in mind that she is going through a lot too. My Ex is her step father but I think a lot of the same things apply. I'm getting to the point where I think it may be better to just have him completely out of our lives--not seeing difficult child at all. That will be hard on difficult child, but I can't imagine that this is any better. I'm so angry at myself for getting us into this situation and I feel guilty for letting difficult child get attached to someone who turned out to be verbally and emotionally abusive. Like I should have seen the signs, but I didn't. I'm working on that. I have the explosive child book, I haven't read it since difficult child was about 4 or 5, so I could use another read. I'll keep you all posted. Thanks again [/QUOTE]
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