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Should I wait until fall to kill husband and we can have a m-i-l combo killing?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 530937" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Kiesta- that isn't always true. Sometimes easements can be changed or lost, esp if the city isn't involved. So Janet really does need to check with the county about her rigths if she wants to keep them.</p><p></p><p>Terry, in VA you contact the Army Corp of Engineers, as 3S suggested. I will pm the info to you cause I found it. This is where the EPA website sent me when I looked for resources there. the office is in Norfolk, but I don't know how close that is to you.</p><p></p><p>I would be furious. DO you have pics of before he wrecked your property and after? If not, get some NOW. Make SURE the date stamp is on. </p><p></p><p>This is NOT going to stop with a fine and some nastiness from the county most likely. Chances are you will need iether a great shark atty or a great fence or both. </p><p></p><p>How many years are you going to allow this to happen? Do you realize that YOU may have to pay to do whatever the wetlands needs and then sue him to recoup your costs? Then wait and probably garnish him as he hides assets from you? Your legal bills for this will be enormous. </p><p></p><p>The other option is to continue as you have started and report him to everyone you can find to report him to, and also to speak with your atty and make sure he is GOOD so that you can protect yourself.</p><p></p><p>Cause if those trees get replanted and the wetlands gets fixed, but tG refuses to pay for the labor and materials, it will be YOUR property that gets a lien on it. At least at first. </p><p></p><p>Thsi is year 2. How many do you want to suffer through with this guy completely not respecting your boundaries? There is NO exuse for his behavior and legally he will likely be in a lot of trouble. You and husband nicing your way out of ths helps NO ONE, esp YOU. Do you REALLY want to just let this guy do whatever he wants with your home? What do you do the day he paints the house chartreuse while you are gone for a weekend - and gives YOU the bills? </p><p></p><p>Even more scary, what happens when he gets HURT on your property? Not being invited there, doing unauthorized changes/landscaping (AKA vandalism and property damage, by the way) does NOT let you off the legal hook if he gets hurt. There ARE precedences in MANY states that if someone on your property, esp someone working, gets hurt then you owe them HUGE $$$ - not just medical costs either. TG could go after everything and even claim you WANTED him to do that stuff because you didn't file charges or take legal steps to stop him.</p><p></p><p>This goes beyond the yard and the house and the wetlands. This is a serious belief that TG can do anything he wants to you and that you and husband will not stop him. Be careful, get legal action, and document, document, document. If he so much as belches in your direction, make a not of it. This will be a real help to your atty.</p><p></p><p>Have you read "Boundaries" By Townsend and Cloud and worked with the workbook also? They might be something you find helpful and nteresting. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry TG is such a horrible neighbor.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 530937, member: 1233"] Kiesta- that isn't always true. Sometimes easements can be changed or lost, esp if the city isn't involved. So Janet really does need to check with the county about her rigths if she wants to keep them. Terry, in VA you contact the Army Corp of Engineers, as 3S suggested. I will pm the info to you cause I found it. This is where the EPA website sent me when I looked for resources there. the office is in Norfolk, but I don't know how close that is to you. I would be furious. DO you have pics of before he wrecked your property and after? If not, get some NOW. Make SURE the date stamp is on. This is NOT going to stop with a fine and some nastiness from the county most likely. Chances are you will need iether a great shark atty or a great fence or both. How many years are you going to allow this to happen? Do you realize that YOU may have to pay to do whatever the wetlands needs and then sue him to recoup your costs? Then wait and probably garnish him as he hides assets from you? Your legal bills for this will be enormous. The other option is to continue as you have started and report him to everyone you can find to report him to, and also to speak with your atty and make sure he is GOOD so that you can protect yourself. Cause if those trees get replanted and the wetlands gets fixed, but tG refuses to pay for the labor and materials, it will be YOUR property that gets a lien on it. At least at first. Thsi is year 2. How many do you want to suffer through with this guy completely not respecting your boundaries? There is NO exuse for his behavior and legally he will likely be in a lot of trouble. You and husband nicing your way out of ths helps NO ONE, esp YOU. Do you REALLY want to just let this guy do whatever he wants with your home? What do you do the day he paints the house chartreuse while you are gone for a weekend - and gives YOU the bills? Even more scary, what happens when he gets HURT on your property? Not being invited there, doing unauthorized changes/landscaping (AKA vandalism and property damage, by the way) does NOT let you off the legal hook if he gets hurt. There ARE precedences in MANY states that if someone on your property, esp someone working, gets hurt then you owe them HUGE $$$ - not just medical costs either. TG could go after everything and even claim you WANTED him to do that stuff because you didn't file charges or take legal steps to stop him. This goes beyond the yard and the house and the wetlands. This is a serious belief that TG can do anything he wants to you and that you and husband will not stop him. Be careful, get legal action, and document, document, document. If he so much as belches in your direction, make a not of it. This will be a real help to your atty. Have you read "Boundaries" By Townsend and Cloud and worked with the workbook also? They might be something you find helpful and nteresting. I am sorry TG is such a horrible neighbor. [/QUOTE]
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