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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 717357" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Copa there is nothing missing. One thing I learn is the underlying sense of unease never subsides no matter what we do. </p><p>I know what it is like not to be in the same page as your other half. It can be very challenging. I chose to step back and allow my husband time to process and come to terms with our sons behavior. This meant allowing my son to stay, when I felt like it was time for him to leave. </p><p>Some times we need to distance ourselves and self heal. Self care is not selfish care. </p><p>My suggestion is focus on you. Think about what you need for a calm sustainable life. Then decide how your son fits into that. Share this with your loved one and try come to to common plan of action. </p><p>Loving your son is not the question. By simply struggling with this issue tells us that you love your son. </p><p>I am not so young and I do remember One Eyed Jack. I have a sister named Susan </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/playful.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":playful:" title="playful :playful:" data-shortname=":playful:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/pirate.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":pirate:" title="pirate :pirate:" data-shortname=":pirate:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/pirate.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":pirate:" title="pirate :pirate:" data-shortname=":pirate:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/pirate.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":pirate:" title="pirate :pirate:" data-shortname=":pirate:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 717357, member: 21895"] Copa there is nothing missing. One thing I learn is the underlying sense of unease never subsides no matter what we do. I know what it is like not to be in the same page as your other half. It can be very challenging. I chose to step back and allow my husband time to process and come to terms with our sons behavior. This meant allowing my son to stay, when I felt like it was time for him to leave. Some times we need to distance ourselves and self heal. Self care is not selfish care. My suggestion is focus on you. Think about what you need for a calm sustainable life. Then decide how your son fits into that. Share this with your loved one and try come to to common plan of action. Loving your son is not the question. By simply struggling with this issue tells us that you love your son. I am not so young and I do remember One Eyed Jack. I have a sister named Susan :playful::pirate::pirate::pirate: [/QUOTE]
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