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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 533496" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Star, are you sure you don't know my difficult child? Donkey colt indeed. Kicks, bites, more stubborn than anything, sensitive and high-maintenance. And at times the most adorable thing in planet. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /></p><p></p><p>Yes, wallowing in guilt does not help anyone and is something I should just stop. Neither is there any point to fret about what others may or may not think especially when most couldn't probably care less. Not even in husband's family. In fact mother in law's mother in law (husband's granny) is one of the very few people who has said anything about it to my face. She asked, if I really imagined difficult child is the first kid in the family tree who doesn't happen to look like his father at all. And remind me that in older times there were no reliable birth control. And when it goes outside of the family, I do know that worrying much about appearance doesn't make me more pleasant or better person. Just more small minded one. </p><p></p><p>Maybe I should just start using the same tricks difficult child uses when he starts thinking of gambling to stop these thoughts. Because you are right, they are not for any use. husband has forgiven me, I don't think easy child thinks it much and it really is not his business anyway and if difficult child at some point wants to know more, that will be a right time to tell him more. I do believe he has a right to know who his bio father is, but he really is the only one who still has something to say in matter.</p><p></p><p>And when I (again) start to worry what others are saying and appearances, maybe I just have to take out my DVDs and firmly remind myself that while I do kind of adore Hyacinth Bucket, I may not want to turn to her. (Hyacinth Bucket is a main character in older British tv series Keeping Up Appearances, that is still funny as h***. If you have never seen it, I highly recommend it. It has a fabulous group of various difficult child characters and few long suffering un-difficult children.) It was already scary enough when Desperate housewives started it run all those years ago and I got acquainted my long lost soul sister Bree Van de Kamp <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/winks.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":winks:" title="winks :winks:" data-shortname=":winks:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 533496, member: 14557"] Star, are you sure you don't know my difficult child? Donkey colt indeed. Kicks, bites, more stubborn than anything, sensitive and high-maintenance. And at times the most adorable thing in planet. :rofl: Yes, wallowing in guilt does not help anyone and is something I should just stop. Neither is there any point to fret about what others may or may not think especially when most couldn't probably care less. Not even in husband's family. In fact mother in law's mother in law (husband's granny) is one of the very few people who has said anything about it to my face. She asked, if I really imagined difficult child is the first kid in the family tree who doesn't happen to look like his father at all. And remind me that in older times there were no reliable birth control. And when it goes outside of the family, I do know that worrying much about appearance doesn't make me more pleasant or better person. Just more small minded one. Maybe I should just start using the same tricks difficult child uses when he starts thinking of gambling to stop these thoughts. Because you are right, they are not for any use. husband has forgiven me, I don't think easy child thinks it much and it really is not his business anyway and if difficult child at some point wants to know more, that will be a right time to tell him more. I do believe he has a right to know who his bio father is, but he really is the only one who still has something to say in matter. And when I (again) start to worry what others are saying and appearances, maybe I just have to take out my DVDs and firmly remind myself that while I do kind of adore Hyacinth Bucket, I may not want to turn to her. (Hyacinth Bucket is a main character in older British tv series Keeping Up Appearances, that is still funny as h***. If you have never seen it, I highly recommend it. It has a fabulous group of various difficult child characters and few long suffering un-difficult children.) It was already scary enough when Desperate housewives started it run all those years ago and I got acquainted my long lost soul sister Bree Van de Kamp :winks: [/QUOTE]
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