do any of you have issues betwen your siblings? i swear sometimes i think mine are just hate each other. my older boy just constantly belittles my 8 year old and teases him and threatens him and they end up fighting all the time. he even tells his friends not to play with him or to be mean to him. my 8 year old is always trying to play with him or talk to him to no end and has finally started fighting back. as soon as he even starts to talk to him he will ignore him or tell him to shut up or other mean words and will even hit him at times. it is very sad. it is hard because he does want to play with his older brother but to be treated this way for so long is unbearable so now they constantly fight with each other and end up cursing at each other then straight out fist fighting. HELP. this isnt something new, he didnt like him as a baby and never grew out of it. i dont know what to do besides keep playing referee. any of you going through anything like this? any advice?