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Siblings ?? or someone is "spreading the news"...Rats!
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 532226" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am sorry that your family could not respect your wishes. in my opinion this is the ultimate selfishness of them. I would probably let them know how unhappy and violated you feel about this. I would also ask those relatives who call and/or come by out of nowhere when they haven't even acknowledged your existence for many years exactly WHY they called and what made them think that you would WANT them to call or to know anything about your life?? It may be a rude question in some people's minds, but your health is none of their business and you have zero obligation to be polite when THEY are being rude. ESPECIALLY if they ask questions about your health and your choices. </p><p></p><p>For those who call on the phone, introduce yourself as Griselda the Estate Manager and ask specifically what they want, who they are, and demand paperwork to prove their identities before ANY info is released, including whether this is your home or not.</p><p></p><p>Since they disregarded your wishes and are violating your privacy, why not play with them a bit? have FUN with them - laughter is great medicine after all. given that they are SOOOO concerned about your health, surely they will see that this is the best thing you can do with them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 532226, member: 1233"] I am sorry that your family could not respect your wishes. in my opinion this is the ultimate selfishness of them. I would probably let them know how unhappy and violated you feel about this. I would also ask those relatives who call and/or come by out of nowhere when they haven't even acknowledged your existence for many years exactly WHY they called and what made them think that you would WANT them to call or to know anything about your life?? It may be a rude question in some people's minds, but your health is none of their business and you have zero obligation to be polite when THEY are being rude. ESPECIALLY if they ask questions about your health and your choices. For those who call on the phone, introduce yourself as Griselda the Estate Manager and ask specifically what they want, who they are, and demand paperwork to prove their identities before ANY info is released, including whether this is your home or not. Since they disregarded your wishes and are violating your privacy, why not play with them a bit? have FUN with them - laughter is great medicine after all. given that they are SOOOO concerned about your health, surely they will see that this is the best thing you can do with them. [/QUOTE]
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