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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 215200" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>AOG, hold those thoughts- you know it isn't worth it and it would leave a legacy for your kids that you don't want. You are not a failure for doing what is in the best interest for you and your kids. Think this through. Your eldest is using you- not because he doesn't love you, but because his head isn't screwed on straight. My guess is that he learned a lot of this behavior elsewhere, but at this point, it doesn't matter. If he gets locked up for 2 years, this might not be such a bad thing. Really, what if he died or killed someone or if he continued to live this way and you completely gave way and then your second son became this way or worse?</p><p></p><p>Letting this one go for now does not mean that his life is over- I really believe that letting him go on the path he is own is more detrimental to all 3 of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 215200, member: 3699"] AOG, hold those thoughts- you know it isn't worth it and it would leave a legacy for your kids that you don't want. You are not a failure for doing what is in the best interest for you and your kids. Think this through. Your eldest is using you- not because he doesn't love you, but because his head isn't screwed on straight. My guess is that he learned a lot of this behavior elsewhere, but at this point, it doesn't matter. If he gets locked up for 2 years, this might not be such a bad thing. Really, what if he died or killed someone or if he continued to live this way and you completely gave way and then your second son became this way or worse? Letting this one go for now does not mean that his life is over- I really believe that letting him go on the path he is own is more detrimental to all 3 of you. [/QUOTE]
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