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<blockquote data-quote="Ca Mom Losing Hope" data-source="post: 626245" data-attributes="member: 17782"><p>Wow COM!!! I know you wrote this some days ago, but i just reread it again and I want to say Thank You. Mostly on the points of what to do if he shows up. I hope I could be so strong and would have the warning you had that he may show up. Since my difficult child is quite far away and it would take some support and money to get here, i think I might get some warning. </p><p></p><p>For my toolkit:</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>This is a good plan. My difficult child grew up in this home as well. My husband says maybe we should move to take that childhood home feeling away and that deep sinking feeling I get when I think about, what would happen if he showed up on the doorstep. I am standing my ground though and not going to run. It is not easy to buy a home in CA and that is no reason to flee. </p><p></p><p>I came back to read some of this thread because my difficult child has been so quiet. No calls or text for a week. I did ask his brother if he had heard from him and he had about 5 days ago but nothing recently. When he did text his brother it was more depression talk and he doesn't want to hear it anymore either. I told him that if it gets to bad, call the dispatch at the PD there and let them take care of it. I know he is ok because i have ways of seeing activity, such as the pizza he ordered from Dominos on Friday. </p><p></p><p>So how come I am so worried? A week is not that long. I even text this morning and just asked how he was doing, and got nothing back. I am going to take the advice I read on another post today, i would quote it if i could find it. It feels like the flood is coming and that rise of emotions are breaking through their barrier. The post said something about taking a deep breath and feeling it rush right through me.</p><p></p><p>I had to go back and find it:</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I am sure I will hear from him soon enough and it will be another escalation and drama that I will have to wade through. There is a little hope inside of me that he is so mad at me that he is going to show me that he can do it on his own and that he is fine without me. Boy wouldn't that show me. Little Dreams <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>CA Mom</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ca Mom Losing Hope, post: 626245, member: 17782"] Wow COM!!! I know you wrote this some days ago, but i just reread it again and I want to say Thank You. Mostly on the points of what to do if he shows up. I hope I could be so strong and would have the warning you had that he may show up. Since my difficult child is quite far away and it would take some support and money to get here, i think I might get some warning. For my toolkit: This is a good plan. My difficult child grew up in this home as well. My husband says maybe we should move to take that childhood home feeling away and that deep sinking feeling I get when I think about, what would happen if he showed up on the doorstep. I am standing my ground though and not going to run. It is not easy to buy a home in CA and that is no reason to flee. I came back to read some of this thread because my difficult child has been so quiet. No calls or text for a week. I did ask his brother if he had heard from him and he had about 5 days ago but nothing recently. When he did text his brother it was more depression talk and he doesn't want to hear it anymore either. I told him that if it gets to bad, call the dispatch at the PD there and let them take care of it. I know he is ok because i have ways of seeing activity, such as the pizza he ordered from Dominos on Friday. So how come I am so worried? A week is not that long. I even text this morning and just asked how he was doing, and got nothing back. I am going to take the advice I read on another post today, i would quote it if i could find it. It feels like the flood is coming and that rise of emotions are breaking through their barrier. The post said something about taking a deep breath and feeling it rush right through me. I had to go back and find it: I am sure I will hear from him soon enough and it will be another escalation and drama that I will have to wade through. There is a little hope inside of me that he is so mad at me that he is going to show me that he can do it on his own and that he is fine without me. Boy wouldn't that show me. Little Dreams :-) CA Mom [/QUOTE]
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