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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 292368" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I imagine that your stepfather will have to go to at least some of the evidentiary hearings as a witness. He's not going to every little thing, is he?</p><p></p><p>The reason that I ask is that those little hearings are he-- on others, and they aren't anything that really resolves anything. I know you aren't planning to bail him out or have him ROR'd to you, so they aren't hearings that you need to go to, either. (And it gives him a way to manipulate when you do.) Maybe you could talk to your stepdad and ask how he feels about attending, and assure him that you understand how upset he is and you will go as support to HIM if he wants it, otherwise you will stay home. It might open the lines of communication for him.</p><p></p><p>Also, is he and/or your mom being seen by a crime victim's advocate from the DA's office? Maybe if you let them know how hard your folks are taking this they would make an effort.</p><p></p><p>I can't remember if you said already, so I hope I'm not asking for a repeat, but did they find the guns?</p><p></p><p>Big hugs....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 292368, member: 99"] I imagine that your stepfather will have to go to at least some of the evidentiary hearings as a witness. He's not going to every little thing, is he? The reason that I ask is that those little hearings are he-- on others, and they aren't anything that really resolves anything. I know you aren't planning to bail him out or have him ROR'd to you, so they aren't hearings that you need to go to, either. (And it gives him a way to manipulate when you do.) Maybe you could talk to your stepdad and ask how he feels about attending, and assure him that you understand how upset he is and you will go as support to HIM if he wants it, otherwise you will stay home. It might open the lines of communication for him. Also, is he and/or your mom being seen by a crime victim's advocate from the DA's office? Maybe if you let them know how hard your folks are taking this they would make an effort. I can't remember if you said already, so I hope I'm not asking for a repeat, but did they find the guns? Big hugs.... [/QUOTE]
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