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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 555880" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>You might consider asking Tigger what sort of consequences he thinks Piglet and Eeyore should have? This might be a coping tool that he could use once the intiial rage passes. Thinking through what would be a fit consequence and feeling as though you are listining to his input might be helpful. </p><p></p><p>I would also put a set consequence into place for messing with one super important item of each child. My kids have always had one item that NO ONE messes with, takes away, uses to tease them. It is not taken away as a punishment for ANYTHING, EVER. Wiz tried it one time with J's blankie and thank you's blanket. He was truly frightened of how angry I got with him, and how his siblings looked and acted toward him. thank you was about 3 and he was NEVER a biter or growler or angry kid - he was the sweetest, most sharing kid I have ever seen. But for abut a week he would growl at Wiz if Wiz got within a few feet of thank you's blanket. If Wiz touched it, thank you bit him. Hard. Even more alarming to Wiz was that I refused to say anything to thank you about it, or to let husband punish him or scold him for either the growling or biting. This was considered a SACRED item in our home, one that not even husband or I would take away for ANYTHING other than to wash it. even that was done when thank you was at daycare or running an errand wtih one of us. It was perfectly reasonable for thank you to want to protect it that way. Esp because Wiz didn't just take it, he hid if for two days! </p><p></p><p>I hope that this can be worked through without ruining your entire trip. I am proud of Tigger for not hurting anyone though he clearly wanted to. Who wouldn't after being violated that way??? Maybe this will be a lesson for Piglet about hacking people's passwords??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 555880, member: 1233"] You might consider asking Tigger what sort of consequences he thinks Piglet and Eeyore should have? This might be a coping tool that he could use once the intiial rage passes. Thinking through what would be a fit consequence and feeling as though you are listining to his input might be helpful. I would also put a set consequence into place for messing with one super important item of each child. My kids have always had one item that NO ONE messes with, takes away, uses to tease them. It is not taken away as a punishment for ANYTHING, EVER. Wiz tried it one time with J's blankie and thank you's blanket. He was truly frightened of how angry I got with him, and how his siblings looked and acted toward him. thank you was about 3 and he was NEVER a biter or growler or angry kid - he was the sweetest, most sharing kid I have ever seen. But for abut a week he would growl at Wiz if Wiz got within a few feet of thank you's blanket. If Wiz touched it, thank you bit him. Hard. Even more alarming to Wiz was that I refused to say anything to thank you about it, or to let husband punish him or scold him for either the growling or biting. This was considered a SACRED item in our home, one that not even husband or I would take away for ANYTHING other than to wash it. even that was done when thank you was at daycare or running an errand wtih one of us. It was perfectly reasonable for thank you to want to protect it that way. Esp because Wiz didn't just take it, he hid if for two days! I hope that this can be worked through without ruining your entire trip. I am proud of Tigger for not hurting anyone though he clearly wanted to. Who wouldn't after being violated that way??? Maybe this will be a lesson for Piglet about hacking people's passwords?? [/QUOTE]
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