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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 345475" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Jo I don't really have time to read through all of the replies, so sorry if I repeat something.</p><p></p><p>Sounds like your easy child may have similar issues that Nichole has had concerning boyfriend. I don't know why they can't get it through their silly heads the guys are horrible for them. But sigh.....hopefully that will happen.</p><p></p><p>And it sounds to me that this rather stupid idea of easy child's just might be a way to make it happen much faster. lol (whether she knows it or not) Having grown up in a home that is more modern in it's views she's going to have a hard time adjusting to the fundamentalist view on a 24/7 basis. There is also a huge difference in being exposed to it via visiting and the like and having to live with it. Huge. I doubt that it going to sit well with her. </p><p></p><p>I am a bit surprised the parents are even considering having her stay in the house at all, in the same room or not, as that is usually considered too tempting and unacceptable. But she and ol' Casper may find out rather quick that his parents will come down on them with a heavy hand if they can't resist temptation just once and happen to get caught. Then she'll have most likely made enemies of both his parents just to be "closer" to boyfriend. ugh</p><p></p><p>Odd all the way around. Sounds like she's foundering and unsure of what she wants outside of the scope of boyfriend. And yet unsure of how to break free of controlling boyfriend. The set up is just really weird. Why did boyfriend move home when he owns his own home? That doesn't make sense. And what possible benefit is it to them as a couple to live there together........more like siblings than a couple?</p><p></p><p>I don't think this plan will be very long lived. At all.</p><p></p><p>If it were Nichole, I'd attempt to talk to her about the pros and cons as objectively as possible. Maybe doing it that way will help her to see this set up/idea is just plain weird and really, aw heck I dunno, I don't see what any of them gets out of it. Know what I mean???</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 345475, member: 84"] Jo I don't really have time to read through all of the replies, so sorry if I repeat something. Sounds like your easy child may have similar issues that Nichole has had concerning boyfriend. I don't know why they can't get it through their silly heads the guys are horrible for them. But sigh.....hopefully that will happen. And it sounds to me that this rather stupid idea of easy child's just might be a way to make it happen much faster. lol (whether she knows it or not) Having grown up in a home that is more modern in it's views she's going to have a hard time adjusting to the fundamentalist view on a 24/7 basis. There is also a huge difference in being exposed to it via visiting and the like and having to live with it. Huge. I doubt that it going to sit well with her. I am a bit surprised the parents are even considering having her stay in the house at all, in the same room or not, as that is usually considered too tempting and unacceptable. But she and ol' Casper may find out rather quick that his parents will come down on them with a heavy hand if they can't resist temptation just once and happen to get caught. Then she'll have most likely made enemies of both his parents just to be "closer" to boyfriend. ugh Odd all the way around. Sounds like she's foundering and unsure of what she wants outside of the scope of boyfriend. And yet unsure of how to break free of controlling boyfriend. The set up is just really weird. Why did boyfriend move home when he owns his own home? That doesn't make sense. And what possible benefit is it to them as a couple to live there together........more like siblings than a couple? I don't think this plan will be very long lived. At all. If it were Nichole, I'd attempt to talk to her about the pros and cons as objectively as possible. Maybe doing it that way will help her to see this set up/idea is just plain weird and really, aw heck I dunno, I don't see what any of them gets out of it. Know what I mean??? [/QUOTE]
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