Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
So angry with easy child
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 346336" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>To me the most startling part is her statement that she "won't have to sleep with him". WTH???</p><p> </p><p>Like the others I don't think you can do anything to prevent this change in lifestyle. Sorry. on the other hand, that statement sends a message to me that she does not want to be an adult yet and is looking for an environment where she can be a good little girl and not have to face any decision making at all.</p><p>It would be great if she would see a therapist so she can freely explore her motivations and fears. Honestly I think she has emotional/mental health issues that need to be explored away from both families.</p><p> </p><p>Do I think she would agree to go? No. Sad to say. </p><p> </p><p>Most of us probably wanted to withdraw from adulthood at some time to feel free of responsibilities. I'm old as the hills and still miss "being babied" for a few hours at my Mom's house, lol. It was wonderful to have someone prepare a special lunch and let me be carefree. BUT I think your easy child</p><p>wants to climb back into preteen life semi permanently and</p><p>that...well, that's just flat out scary.</p><p> </p><p>I'm sorry you are going to be a bystander while she tries this retrospective lifestyle. The only good news is that she</p><p>isn't eager to start a family...or even face intimacy! DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 346336, member: 35"] To me the most startling part is her statement that she "won't have to sleep with him". WTH??? Like the others I don't think you can do anything to prevent this change in lifestyle. Sorry. on the other hand, that statement sends a message to me that she does not want to be an adult yet and is looking for an environment where she can be a good little girl and not have to face any decision making at all. It would be great if she would see a therapist so she can freely explore her motivations and fears. Honestly I think she has emotional/mental health issues that need to be explored away from both families. Do I think she would agree to go? No. Sad to say. Most of us probably wanted to withdraw from adulthood at some time to feel free of responsibilities. I'm old as the hills and still miss "being babied" for a few hours at my Mom's house, lol. It was wonderful to have someone prepare a special lunch and let me be carefree. BUT I think your easy child wants to climb back into preteen life semi permanently and that...well, that's just flat out scary. I'm sorry you are going to be a bystander while she tries this retrospective lifestyle. The only good news is that she isn't eager to start a family...or even face intimacy! DDD [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
So angry with easy child
Top