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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 547542" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>What kind of therapy have <em>you</em> had in dealing with this?</p><p>Because... this - sexual abuse by a family connection - is massive. </p><p>If not handled right, can be very destructive.</p><p></p><p>It's about way more than "getting her into therapy" when she was in FL. I doubt it's been really dealt with - certainly not to the point of closure. And you don't know how she feels about <em>your</em> part in this... no, it is NOT your fault. But in a young teen's mind, "if you and Dad had just stayed together, this would never have happened" can create some fairly major relationship issues. Add to that the fact that Dad doesn't want her to remain in FL either... </p><p></p><p>She - and you - need help to work through this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 547542, member: 11791"] What kind of therapy have [I]you[/I] had in dealing with this? Because... this - sexual abuse by a family connection - is massive. If not handled right, can be very destructive. It's about way more than "getting her into therapy" when she was in FL. I doubt it's been really dealt with - certainly not to the point of closure. And you don't know how she feels about [I]your[/I] part in this... no, it is NOT your fault. But in a young teen's mind, "if you and Dad had just stayed together, this would never have happened" can create some fairly major relationship issues. Add to that the fact that Dad doesn't want her to remain in FL either... She - and you - need help to work through this. [/QUOTE]
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