Hi, i just found this forum and i just need to know how to proceed. I have a 15 year old daughter she is the oldest of 3 and i feel like i am loosing her and i don't know what to do or how to act. I live in Oklahoma father lives in Fl. Father and I have a good relationship and work together to parent her as well as step mom. a couple of years ago out of the blue my daughter told me in an argument that she wanted to live with her dad i admit i was very hurt but thought i would nip it in the bud at 13 and let her go so she can see that the grass is not always greener on the other side. It turned out that my step son was sexually abusing her and we had no idea so we dealt with that and she was in counseling in FL getting treated etc... she spent a school year there with her dad and then came back home after we removed the step son out of the equation. I am now really starting to regret that move as here we are at 15 and she is wanting to go to high school in fl and live there full time her dad can't have her living with them cause if his other daughter going to a private school and they don't want my daughter to mess the younger one up with her issues. I don't know what i have done to push her away! I am so confused and hurt about it she was doing horrible here in school and started to hang with the wrong people and skipping school I just don't know if her living with my mom in FL would be better. Any thoughts?