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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 761020" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>Last night our older granddaughter called and she was upset. She said her mom had called and that her sister and boyfriend had had an altercation. A male friend or neighbor chased him away. The police were called and then she denied any physical altercation. This upset her older sister to tears and I tried to assure her that even if she was there she could not control the situation. I don't know what it will take for this to have a safe ending. He still doesn't have an ID, or a job, or any way to leave that state because you have to have an ID to travel. My ex-daughter-in-law wants him gone.</p><p></p><p>If they were to return to our state I don't believe there is any relative that would let them both stay. We would only agree to take the grandson. As long as our granddaughter is involved with the boyfriend we can't have her here. We would be prisoners in our own home because we can't trust her not to let boyfriend in. Our town does not have much in the way of services for homeless people. There's only one shelter and you have to check in between 5 and 7pm and not leave till the next morning. They would never agree to do that. Plus without an ID card I don't think he would even be allowed there. Another issue is he has a warrant for failure to appear on DV charges from 5 years ago! I know it's not my problem to solve. </p><p></p><p>The way they are acting makes me wonder if they're on drugs. They had been in the past before they left here. But her mom says she is not giving them any cash. The thought has crossed my mind that he would pimp her out for drugs. I know it's an intrusive thought, and I hope it's not true, but I wouldn't put it past him. He seems to have complete control over anything she does. Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 761020, member: 12511"] Last night our older granddaughter called and she was upset. She said her mom had called and that her sister and boyfriend had had an altercation. A male friend or neighbor chased him away. The police were called and then she denied any physical altercation. This upset her older sister to tears and I tried to assure her that even if she was there she could not control the situation. I don't know what it will take for this to have a safe ending. He still doesn't have an ID, or a job, or any way to leave that state because you have to have an ID to travel. My ex-daughter-in-law wants him gone. If they were to return to our state I don't believe there is any relative that would let them both stay. We would only agree to take the grandson. As long as our granddaughter is involved with the boyfriend we can't have her here. We would be prisoners in our own home because we can't trust her not to let boyfriend in. Our town does not have much in the way of services for homeless people. There's only one shelter and you have to check in between 5 and 7pm and not leave till the next morning. They would never agree to do that. Plus without an ID card I don't think he would even be allowed there. Another issue is he has a warrant for failure to appear on DV charges from 5 years ago! I know it's not my problem to solve. The way they are acting makes me wonder if they're on drugs. They had been in the past before they left here. But her mom says she is not giving them any cash. The thought has crossed my mind that he would pimp her out for drugs. I know it's an intrusive thought, and I hope it's not true, but I wouldn't put it past him. He seems to have complete control over anything she does. Ksm [/QUOTE]
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