Since difficult child totaled his car, I have been so terrified. He is asking to use husband's car. It is an older car and only has liability on it and if something happens husband has nothing to get to work. I literally have panic attacks if he takes the car anywhere. I was always worried, but since I know how bad his car was and how we were told his seatbelt kept him from being thrown through the window....I am SO scared. He has been staying after school all week to get work done. He texted me and asked if he can PLEASE use dad's car to take his new girlfriend out for food. I am so terrified. I have not answered. He has taken it twice and strict rules. He has followed those rules. Not even one minute late. Actually has been early. But, I am terrified. What to do???