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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 488090" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm going to give you a link to attachment disorder. No offense, I hope, but I can't believe you don't think her childhood has not been crazy. It has been filled with chaos and rejection...it has been awful. It would almost be impossible for this child not to have attachment issues. She isn't bad, she is a product of her seriously horrible background. Think about it...this child has more going on than just ODD. </p><p></p><p>This girl has been tossed around like a hot potato and has had to adjust to <em><strong>three </strong></em>different mother figures and <em><strong>three </strong></em>families and has been given up twice. I think in my opinion you expect too much for a child with her background. She is not seeing a counselor? She has not seen a psychiatrist? in my opinion she needs to be evaluated...she is probably more damaged than you think. It is best to get a professional involved, hopefully one who is schooled in children who have suffered many attachment breaks. You can not do this without specialized help, nor should you try to. It is a hard journey. Anyhooooooooo, here is the link:</p><p></p><p><a href="http://attachmenttherapy.com/ad.htm" target="_blank">Attachment Disorder, Attachment Therapy - What is Attachment Disorder?</a></p><p></p><p>I wish you luck. It will not be an easy road, but you can help her. However, you have to admit that her childhood was exceptionally hurtful and that she needs A LOT of help or she is bound to get worse. It's up to you, but she needs tons of help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 488090, member: 1550"] I'm going to give you a link to attachment disorder. No offense, I hope, but I can't believe you don't think her childhood has not been crazy. It has been filled with chaos and rejection...it has been awful. It would almost be impossible for this child not to have attachment issues. She isn't bad, she is a product of her seriously horrible background. Think about it...this child has more going on than just ODD. This girl has been tossed around like a hot potato and has had to adjust to [I][B]three [/B][/I]different mother figures and [I][B]three [/B][/I]families and has been given up twice. I think in my opinion you expect too much for a child with her background. She is not seeing a counselor? She has not seen a psychiatrist? in my opinion she needs to be evaluated...she is probably more damaged than you think. It is best to get a professional involved, hopefully one who is schooled in children who have suffered many attachment breaks. You can not do this without specialized help, nor should you try to. It is a hard journey. Anyhooooooooo, here is the link: [URL="http://attachmenttherapy.com/ad.htm"]Attachment Disorder, Attachment Therapy - What is Attachment Disorder?[/URL] I wish you luck. It will not be an easy road, but you can help her. However, you have to admit that her childhood was exceptionally hurtful and that she needs A LOT of help or she is bound to get worse. It's up to you, but she needs tons of help. [/QUOTE]
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