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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 488197" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Welcome! Glad you found us. </p><p></p><p>Your state that 'nothing seems exceptional about her childhood' is just incorrect. I am sorry, I do not mean to be offensive if that is. But, you are wrong. Being adopted in itself is exceptional. A few of the others that have adopted children said it best above, but I have been here for a long time and I know that adopted kids are troubled - even if they do not show it for years. Even if it is not violent of obvious that they are troubled. They are. Their brith mother rejected them. I know that you probably have thought you could love that issue away. But, you can not. </p><p></p><p>So, take the others posters advice and read up on Attachment Disorders. And yes, it is common for difficult children to be worse with one parent. </p><p></p><p>Oh and difficult child = Gift from God. You can hover over any acronym and it will give you the description.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 488197, member: 391"] Welcome! Glad you found us. Your state that 'nothing seems exceptional about her childhood' is just incorrect. I am sorry, I do not mean to be offensive if that is. But, you are wrong. Being adopted in itself is exceptional. A few of the others that have adopted children said it best above, but I have been here for a long time and I know that adopted kids are troubled - even if they do not show it for years. Even if it is not violent of obvious that they are troubled. They are. Their brith mother rejected them. I know that you probably have thought you could love that issue away. But, you can not. So, take the others posters advice and read up on Attachment Disorders. And yes, it is common for difficult children to be worse with one parent. Oh and difficult child = Gift from God. You can hover over any acronym and it will give you the description. [/QUOTE]
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