Welcome Battleweary!
Not much advise this morning, kinda having a "day" here with my difficult child! UGH! But wanted to welcome you and ask a few questions.
Is your difficult child on any medications?
Who diagnosed him?
Is he receiving and special services at school?
Do you have anyone you can "lend" him to for a day so you can get a well deserved break?
Also, if you click on My stuff on your post and then scroll down to Profile, you can post a signature which will appear at the end of each of your posts. (see mine below). Really helps us keep everyone straight and not have to ask you silly questions all the time. Only put as much info as you are comfortable with.
Hugs of welcome,
Vickie