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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 138960" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>So, sounds like another battle. I am sorry. Maybe next time you can flatly state what the rule is and then hang up. And don't keep picking up on her. Warn husband that if he does you will go off like a crazy woman. </p><p> </p><p>This behavior MIGHT be tolerable from a very young PMSing teen. Froma 24yo woman, this is totally unacceptable. But since you keep engaging her, she will keep doing it.</p><p> </p><p>And you backed down enough to say you would be nicer and more gentle to her feelings if this occurred again? </p><p> </p><p>I believe someone mentioned a need to Grow. A. Spine. </p><p> </p><p>I think maybe it is time. She plays you like a violin. Is this what you want? If not, please state your rule and hang up. Unplug the phones if you have to. Turn off the cell phones. Or make a nice long call to someone so she CAN't get through.</p><p> </p><p>Encouraging bad behavior only gets more bad behavior. You certainly have given her permission to treat you badly. Please revoke the permission. Maybe in the future you should just drop a note saying that this is not OK, in the future she will be asked to leave if she behaves like that? IT would cut out some of the interaction that is so damaging to you. Be sure to keep a copy of the note scanned into your computer.</p><p> </p><p>Right now it seems you are having a tough time emotionally. I hope you are seeing your therapist or doctor or whomever you have to help you with this (besides us, we always care and are here for you). </p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 138960, member: 1233"] So, sounds like another battle. I am sorry. Maybe next time you can flatly state what the rule is and then hang up. And don't keep picking up on her. Warn husband that if he does you will go off like a crazy woman. This behavior MIGHT be tolerable from a very young PMSing teen. Froma 24yo woman, this is totally unacceptable. But since you keep engaging her, she will keep doing it. And you backed down enough to say you would be nicer and more gentle to her feelings if this occurred again? I believe someone mentioned a need to Grow. A. Spine. I think maybe it is time. She plays you like a violin. Is this what you want? If not, please state your rule and hang up. Unplug the phones if you have to. Turn off the cell phones. Or make a nice long call to someone so she CAN't get through. Encouraging bad behavior only gets more bad behavior. You certainly have given her permission to treat you badly. Please revoke the permission. Maybe in the future you should just drop a note saying that this is not OK, in the future she will be asked to leave if she behaves like that? IT would cut out some of the interaction that is so damaging to you. Be sure to keep a copy of the note scanned into your computer. Right now it seems you are having a tough time emotionally. I hope you are seeing your therapist or doctor or whomever you have to help you with this (besides us, we always care and are here for you). Susie [/QUOTE]
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