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So, it's apparently all my fault, thanks H
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<blockquote data-quote="Love the sunshine" data-source="post: 186368" data-attributes="member: 5759"><p>Ya' know, it DOES bite a lot of the time. Having a difficult child is really hard on relationships. Of course you made decisions based on love and with the intention of your difficult child being successful in life. Unfortunately, most of the time they choose to take the longest, most difficult path. And it's THEIR choice, and you have no control over it. I used to drive myself crazy asking "why" so I try not to do that anymore. I never came up with an answer anyway. </p><p> </p><p>When we have stressful incidents with our difficult child in our house, every once in awhile, the blame game will come up with my husband and I. Over the last few months I've gotten a lot better about reminding myself that everything we did was out of love - nothing can change that. We gave our difficult child the foundation - what he decides to do with it is up to him.</p><p> </p><p>It does help to vent, though. I'm sorry it was a rough evening for you. With a name like Monkeyboy, I have some pretty funny pictures going through my head. {{{HUGS}}}</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Love the sunshine, post: 186368, member: 5759"] Ya' know, it DOES bite a lot of the time. Having a difficult child is really hard on relationships. Of course you made decisions based on love and with the intention of your difficult child being successful in life. Unfortunately, most of the time they choose to take the longest, most difficult path. And it's THEIR choice, and you have no control over it. I used to drive myself crazy asking "why" so I try not to do that anymore. I never came up with an answer anyway. When we have stressful incidents with our difficult child in our house, every once in awhile, the blame game will come up with my husband and I. Over the last few months I've gotten a lot better about reminding myself that everything we did was out of love - nothing can change that. We gave our difficult child the foundation - what he decides to do with it is up to him. It does help to vent, though. I'm sorry it was a rough evening for you. With a name like Monkeyboy, I have some pretty funny pictures going through my head. {{{HUGS}}} [/QUOTE]
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