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So, it's apparently all my fault, thanks H
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<blockquote data-quote="DazedandConfused" data-source="post: 186374" data-attributes="member: 831"><p>There is simply no excuse for H's behavior. I'm stunned that he would speak of your child in that manner, especially to you. difficult child, or no. Slack ***? Outrageous. I understand the stress your difficult child has put on him, but he was so out of line. </p><p> </p><p>My husband, when very frustrated, has very vaguely mentioned a "maybe if you hadn't". </p><p> </p><p>Oh boy, don't go there, <strong><em>PAL</em></strong>. The shoulder I showed him for THAT comment was colder than Antarctica. Of course, that was after I ripped him a new one. </p><p> </p><p>As Mothers (and I say that because it's usually us Moms who make the decisions, and shlep from resource to resourse trying to help our difficult children), we have to make so many incredibily difficult decisions in regards to what is best for our difficult children. There's no crystal balls into the future. Plus, even if we do everything "right" there aren't any guarantees. This is true even with PCs. I have some things I would have done different for Daughter. At the time, though, I believed I was making the best decision based on her current circumstances to what help was available.</p><p> </p><p>I've been accused of being "overprotective". </p><p> </p><p><em>Whatever!</em></p><p> </p><p>Again, I did what I did because I thought it to be in her best interest at the time. No apologies.</p><p> </p><p>Seems you did that too. I hope H comes to an understanding on that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DazedandConfused, post: 186374, member: 831"] There is simply no excuse for H's behavior. I'm stunned that he would speak of your child in that manner, especially to you. difficult child, or no. Slack ***? Outrageous. I understand the stress your difficult child has put on him, but he was so out of line. My husband, when very frustrated, has very vaguely mentioned a "maybe if you hadn't". Oh boy, don't go there, [B][I]PAL[/I][/B]. The shoulder I showed him for THAT comment was colder than Antarctica. Of course, that was after I ripped him a new one. As Mothers (and I say that because it's usually us Moms who make the decisions, and shlep from resource to resourse trying to help our difficult children), we have to make so many incredibily difficult decisions in regards to what is best for our difficult children. There's no crystal balls into the future. Plus, even if we do everything "right" there aren't any guarantees. This is true even with PCs. I have some things I would have done different for Daughter. At the time, though, I believed I was making the best decision based on her current circumstances to what help was available. I've been accused of being "overprotective". [I]Whatever![/I] Again, I did what I did because I thought it to be in her best interest at the time. No apologies. Seems you did that too. I hope H comes to an understanding on that. [/QUOTE]
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