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So ktbug is back....again...almost weekly,
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 551201" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Lynda</p><p></p><p>Even if you can't afford to pay for ktbug to have a place of her own, do <strong>not</strong> let her back into the house. Love her, support her (emotionally), but this road she needs to walk on her own, painful and tough as it is going to be. </p><p></p><p>I am all about family being there for family, all for mom's guiding and teaching ect ect, you know that. But I've been, to some degree, where ktbug is now in her journey......and it is best for you both that she not be there while going through the hades that is to come, that needs to come, for her to finish healing. </p><p></p><p>This part, is <strong>the</strong> toughest part. She will be riding the emotional roller coaster from hades itself for a while until she begins to work through some of the past. This was in her future whether biomonster had stepped into her life or not. That thing (sorry, I have issues referring to her as if she's human) only sped up the process and brought it front and center to be dealt with. While I empathize with the pain and rage ect kt is going through, in so many ways it is a good thing that the monster stepped in to bring her rushing back to reality that the childhood fantasy was indeed fiction, born of the desperation of a child unable to understand that their own parent could hurt her the way she has been hurt. </p><p></p><p>I am praying hard for ktbug, that she is more ready for the journey ahead than she believes herself to be and that healing begins. But the healing process is anything from pretty. I avoided my family during that time, and it's a good thing I did in my opinion. Kt is an adult, it is time to put her past demons to rest once and for all. Only kt can do that. </p><p></p><p>I will also pray that a solution, whatever it might need to be, can be found for her living situation. Because it should not be with you. She loves you, she trusts you, and every ounce of rage she feels for biomonster will likely be directly at you because you are safe. And that could be very dangerous, trust me. </p><p></p><p>I pray for you too, my friend, that you receive the guidance you need to make the right choices for both you and ktbug. In this instance though, you must put yourself first. This is not your journey, it's hers.</p><p></p><p>((((hugs)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 551201, member: 84"] Lynda Even if you can't afford to pay for ktbug to have a place of her own, do [B]not[/B] let her back into the house. Love her, support her (emotionally), but this road she needs to walk on her own, painful and tough as it is going to be. I am all about family being there for family, all for mom's guiding and teaching ect ect, you know that. But I've been, to some degree, where ktbug is now in her journey......and it is best for you both that she not be there while going through the hades that is to come, that needs to come, for her to finish healing. This part, is [B]the[/B] toughest part. She will be riding the emotional roller coaster from hades itself for a while until she begins to work through some of the past. This was in her future whether biomonster had stepped into her life or not. That thing (sorry, I have issues referring to her as if she's human) only sped up the process and brought it front and center to be dealt with. While I empathize with the pain and rage ect kt is going through, in so many ways it is a good thing that the monster stepped in to bring her rushing back to reality that the childhood fantasy was indeed fiction, born of the desperation of a child unable to understand that their own parent could hurt her the way she has been hurt. I am praying hard for ktbug, that she is more ready for the journey ahead than she believes herself to be and that healing begins. But the healing process is anything from pretty. I avoided my family during that time, and it's a good thing I did in my opinion. Kt is an adult, it is time to put her past demons to rest once and for all. Only kt can do that. I will also pray that a solution, whatever it might need to be, can be found for her living situation. Because it should not be with you. She loves you, she trusts you, and every ounce of rage she feels for biomonster will likely be directly at you because you are safe. And that could be very dangerous, trust me. I pray for you too, my friend, that you receive the guidance you need to make the right choices for both you and ktbug. In this instance though, you must put yourself first. This is not your journey, it's hers. ((((hugs))))) [/QUOTE]
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