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<blockquote data-quote="WhymeMom?" data-source="post: 122021" data-attributes="member: 53"><p>Okay, my two cents......some people don't let things bother them to the point that if others will take care of it....they will just wait until someone else handles it. You have taken on so much, there is no need for him to step in.....his vehicle wasn't working, tell him to get it fixed......don't give him yours, he can ride a bicycle......I bet he would then make it a priority to get his fixed. He is not stepping up, but you need to step back......don't take up the slack when he doesn't pull his weight.....tell him its his responsibility to care for the things he needs. Is this any different from getting a difficult child out on their own? On the other hand, if husband isn't willing to his part why not cut the work by one? Harsh, but let him know how frustrated you are. By the way, if you sold the ponies how long would it be before he even noticed they weren't there? Cut loose dead weight.......if you get my drift????? You shouldn't have to do this all by yourself.......by the way I need oil changes in two cars, if I supply the oil will you change it? Right, learn to say NO!</p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/bloodshot.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":bloodshot:" title="bloodshot :bloodshot:" data-shortname=":bloodshot:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhymeMom?, post: 122021, member: 53"] Okay, my two cents......some people don't let things bother them to the point that if others will take care of it....they will just wait until someone else handles it. You have taken on so much, there is no need for him to step in.....his vehicle wasn't working, tell him to get it fixed......don't give him yours, he can ride a bicycle......I bet he would then make it a priority to get his fixed. He is not stepping up, but you need to step back......don't take up the slack when he doesn't pull his weight.....tell him its his responsibility to care for the things he needs. Is this any different from getting a difficult child out on their own? On the other hand, if husband isn't willing to his part why not cut the work by one? Harsh, but let him know how frustrated you are. By the way, if you sold the ponies how long would it be before he even noticed they weren't there? Cut loose dead weight.......if you get my drift????? You shouldn't have to do this all by yourself.......by the way I need oil changes in two cars, if I supply the oil will you change it? Right, learn to say NO! :bloodshot: [/QUOTE]
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