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so much has happened since we moved, may have been molested..
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<blockquote data-quote="Loving Abbey 2" data-source="post: 166563" data-attributes="member: 4845"><p>I called the main place in this state that deals with sexual abuse and assault and they said they don't do the evaluation on a minor unless it goes through the police. That seems like a horrible way to do it! So what the police ask her about it--and who knows how well trained they are and then she gets to see someone whose a professional? I'm still working on it. </p><p> </p><p>I have to stay in denial (not openly of course) to be able to deal with how to handle this otherwise I'll just fall apart and be useless. One of the possiblities other than it having happened to her is maybe she heard it in the hospital. I mean I really don't see it as having happened...maybe I don't want to see it. I would have expected a dramatic change in behavior at some point that is not related to medication. I'm trying to come up with all the possiblities. </p><p> </p><p>As for the hypersexuality--it seems like a very strange thing to think up. I would expect a whole variety of "normal" sexual fantasies but not this. Who fantasizes about a man whose evil twin breaks into the house and molests her? Of course unless it's someone with a sexual abuse history. The other strange part is that she doesn't seem upset about it at all. Which also makes me question if it happened to her. I just need to get the answers.</p><p> </p><p>REGARDLESS I am moving forward with getting this checked out by a professional. These are just my thoughts, not anything I am sharing with Abbey. I am so grateful for this site!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Loving Abbey 2, post: 166563, member: 4845"] I called the main place in this state that deals with sexual abuse and assault and they said they don't do the evaluation on a minor unless it goes through the police. That seems like a horrible way to do it! So what the police ask her about it--and who knows how well trained they are and then she gets to see someone whose a professional? I'm still working on it. I have to stay in denial (not openly of course) to be able to deal with how to handle this otherwise I'll just fall apart and be useless. One of the possiblities other than it having happened to her is maybe she heard it in the hospital. I mean I really don't see it as having happened...maybe I don't want to see it. I would have expected a dramatic change in behavior at some point that is not related to medication. I'm trying to come up with all the possiblities. As for the hypersexuality--it seems like a very strange thing to think up. I would expect a whole variety of "normal" sexual fantasies but not this. Who fantasizes about a man whose evil twin breaks into the house and molests her? Of course unless it's someone with a sexual abuse history. The other strange part is that she doesn't seem upset about it at all. Which also makes me question if it happened to her. I just need to get the answers. REGARDLESS I am moving forward with getting this checked out by a professional. These are just my thoughts, not anything I am sharing with Abbey. I am so grateful for this site!! [/QUOTE]
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