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So now the truth comes out ... ex-girlfriend is pregnant!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 652250" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Terry, two points that make me angry at Difficult Child to treat a smart, good mom like you the way he is.</p><p></p><p>First of all, his good behavior of a week is common with Difficult Child after a mishap. They try to make up for it by fooling us into thinking they are going to walk right this time. I was introduced to this whack on my head a few times before I realized the pattern. It is so we stop being so angry and to let down our guards, not because of any brilliant "aha" moments. It takes time, more than moments or even one dicey experience.</p><p></p><p>Secondly, my daughter knew that any "friend" she brought home without my permission was going to get a call to the police from me about suspected drug use and that kept them all away. Yay, I was "mean mom"...but it worked...until I was out of town and came home to a drug party (we came home early and surprised her, not on purpose). That was the night we finally invited her to leave. It was the final straw. Bad enough Difficult Child was running the streets, stealing, lying and destroying herself. No way did I need a house full of criminals doing drugs while she's supposed to be home alone taking care of the dogs only. For me...we all have a final straw...and this was mine. I would definitely tell any "friend" that he is not welcome on your property and threaten him with the police. At least, then your place of comfort and support is protected from them. </p><p></p><p>I'm just really sad over all this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 652250, member: 1550"] Terry, two points that make me angry at Difficult Child to treat a smart, good mom like you the way he is. First of all, his good behavior of a week is common with Difficult Child after a mishap. They try to make up for it by fooling us into thinking they are going to walk right this time. I was introduced to this whack on my head a few times before I realized the pattern. It is so we stop being so angry and to let down our guards, not because of any brilliant "aha" moments. It takes time, more than moments or even one dicey experience. Secondly, my daughter knew that any "friend" she brought home without my permission was going to get a call to the police from me about suspected drug use and that kept them all away. Yay, I was "mean mom"...but it worked...until I was out of town and came home to a drug party (we came home early and surprised her, not on purpose). That was the night we finally invited her to leave. It was the final straw. Bad enough Difficult Child was running the streets, stealing, lying and destroying herself. No way did I need a house full of criminals doing drugs while she's supposed to be home alone taking care of the dogs only. For me...we all have a final straw...and this was mine. I would definitely tell any "friend" that he is not welcome on your property and threaten him with the police. At least, then your place of comfort and support is protected from them. I'm just really sad over all this. [/QUOTE]
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