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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 28894" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Why does there have to be a "bad guy" here? I don't get it. </p><p></p><p>boyfriend was good to Janet and ant and Kaleb for a very long time. We all know this and she is the first to say so. He went above and beyond what many of our own spouses have contributed (certainly more than my ex did) in regards to emotional support for Janet and her family. </p><p></p><p>He now wants a different life and was honest enough to tell her that he doesn't love her in the same way anymore- I don't see why that makes him a "rat" or "smells funny" or whatever. It is unfortunate and sad and it hurts that what he wants is not what Janet wants, but that doesn't make him a bad person.</p><p></p><p>I know your intentions are good and your statements are made out of loyalty and love for Janet. I certainly hope that there isn't anything underhanded going on but I think you do their relationship and the enormity of Janet's loss a disservice when you criticize something that only the two of them really know.</p><p></p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 28894, member: 29"] Why does there have to be a "bad guy" here? I don't get it. boyfriend was good to Janet and ant and Kaleb for a very long time. We all know this and she is the first to say so. He went above and beyond what many of our own spouses have contributed (certainly more than my ex did) in regards to emotional support for Janet and her family. He now wants a different life and was honest enough to tell her that he doesn't love her in the same way anymore- I don't see why that makes him a "rat" or "smells funny" or whatever. It is unfortunate and sad and it hurts that what he wants is not what Janet wants, but that doesn't make him a bad person. I know your intentions are good and your statements are made out of loyalty and love for Janet. I certainly hope that there isn't anything underhanded going on but I think you do their relationship and the enormity of Janet's loss a disservice when you criticize something that only the two of them really know. Suz [/QUOTE]
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