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So tired of abusive, grown son....
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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 757186" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Welcome!</p><p></p><p>So sorry to hear that you are going through this but as you know, WE ALL GET IT here!</p><p></p><p>I think having your son not live with you is best. You can't fix his issues and you and your boyfriend (or anyone else) is not his punching bag NOR do you have to put up with that. It doesn't mean you don't love your son. That is not what I'm saying at all. All of us here LOVE our kids desperately and that is why we have almost killed ourselves trying to FIX them - which is NOT possible by the way.</p><p></p><p>My son is fine now after many years of crap, but when it first started we had no clue what we were dealing with. Our older two were pretty good kids and we didn't have much trouble with them other than the normal teen stuff.</p><p></p><p>More will be along to give you advice or support. Take what you want and leave the rest. </p><p></p><p>I recommend you see a therapist that specializes in addiction. That is what I did and it helped me tremendously. If it weren't for that and the folks here and my faith in God I think my son would have either ended up dead or in jail.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting here and reading posts and take care of yourself.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/staystrong.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":staystrong:" title="staystrong :staystrong:" data-shortname=":staystrong:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/notalone.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":notalone:" title="notalone :notalone:" data-shortname=":notalone:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 757186, member: 15032"] Welcome! So sorry to hear that you are going through this but as you know, WE ALL GET IT here! I think having your son not live with you is best. You can't fix his issues and you and your boyfriend (or anyone else) is not his punching bag NOR do you have to put up with that. It doesn't mean you don't love your son. That is not what I'm saying at all. All of us here LOVE our kids desperately and that is why we have almost killed ourselves trying to FIX them - which is NOT possible by the way. My son is fine now after many years of crap, but when it first started we had no clue what we were dealing with. Our older two were pretty good kids and we didn't have much trouble with them other than the normal teen stuff. More will be along to give you advice or support. Take what you want and leave the rest. I recommend you see a therapist that specializes in addiction. That is what I did and it helped me tremendously. If it weren't for that and the folks here and my faith in God I think my son would have either ended up dead or in jail. Keep posting here and reading posts and take care of yourself. :staystrong::notalone: [/QUOTE]
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