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So tired of abusive, grown son....
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<blockquote data-quote="Overwhelmed1" data-source="post: 757207" data-attributes="member: 24921"><p>Sleepy, I understand your fear and dismay. The first time my daughter attacked me she was 15 or 16. She pulled the phone off the wall and threw it at me hitting me in the head.</p><p>I was shocked and couldn't believe she could actually do this.</p><p>Since, she has probably attacked me 4 or 5 times in the last 20 years and is still verbally abusive.</p><p>Each time it was sudden and I could not believe how fast her violence was triggered.</p><p>We were on our way to church one morning and she started hitting me in the head as I was driving. Can't even remember how it started. I should have turned around and went home but I knew church was a better place for me to be.</p><p>I have distanced myself from her each time this happens. The last time was about 4 or 5 years ago standing in my kitchen making us coffee, I said something she didn't like and her fist went upside my head. My ear rang for several hours after that.</p><p>Please, be careful. In my experience, once it starts it is hard for it to stop.</p><p>I make sure I stand back from my daughter if she is not showing she feels happy. I don't visit her very often any more. I hope she never starts reacting to her children violently. I can only pray about that.</p><p>My son is more of a verbal abuser, however he does get very close with his hand clinched and I can tell he wants to strike something, usually ends up being a wall or door near me. He has never made contact but I fear it anyway. I never thought my daughter would hit me either.</p><p>Again be careful. Be safe. Don't forget how fast he was triggered.</p><p></p><p>Big hugs to you. Know I understand completely and care.</p><p></p><p>Peace and Love</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Overwhelmed1, post: 757207, member: 24921"] Sleepy, I understand your fear and dismay. The first time my daughter attacked me she was 15 or 16. She pulled the phone off the wall and threw it at me hitting me in the head. I was shocked and couldn't believe she could actually do this. Since, she has probably attacked me 4 or 5 times in the last 20 years and is still verbally abusive. Each time it was sudden and I could not believe how fast her violence was triggered. We were on our way to church one morning and she started hitting me in the head as I was driving. Can't even remember how it started. I should have turned around and went home but I knew church was a better place for me to be. I have distanced myself from her each time this happens. The last time was about 4 or 5 years ago standing in my kitchen making us coffee, I said something she didn't like and her fist went upside my head. My ear rang for several hours after that. Please, be careful. In my experience, once it starts it is hard for it to stop. I make sure I stand back from my daughter if she is not showing she feels happy. I don't visit her very often any more. I hope she never starts reacting to her children violently. I can only pray about that. My son is more of a verbal abuser, however he does get very close with his hand clinched and I can tell he wants to strike something, usually ends up being a wall or door near me. He has never made contact but I fear it anyway. I never thought my daughter would hit me either. Again be careful. Be safe. Don't forget how fast he was triggered. Big hugs to you. Know I understand completely and care. Peace and Love [/QUOTE]
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