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<blockquote data-quote="Acacia" data-source="post: 710437" data-attributes="member: 19832"><p>You have a lot of words of wisdom. No offense taken. It's important to be able to hear the truth - something my daughter is unable to do yet. Yes, I have enable but I keep working on it. Believe it or not, I have ben in Codependents Anonymous for year. It has helped tremendously, but once grand children came in to the picture it's been more difficult for me. My daughter loves to guilt and is very manipulative, and I still fall for it. I am back at step one: I am powerless over others, and my life has become unmanageable. I am holding the line at not letting her move in, and no my husband wants nothing to do with the baby. He's furious at the two fathers for not being responsible, which is why he doesn't want to shoulder that burden. </p><p>I have caved in that I have a friend who has an apt. with a shared kitchen, and strict rules. If they work out an arrangement, I told my daughter I would pay 3 months rent, and she would have to take over, and I told my friend if my daughter doesn't honor her agreement, she needs to move out immediately. My daughter is on the list for subsidized housing, a 6-12 month wait and she has a college degree. Thanks for your input. I appreciate it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Acacia, post: 710437, member: 19832"] You have a lot of words of wisdom. No offense taken. It's important to be able to hear the truth - something my daughter is unable to do yet. Yes, I have enable but I keep working on it. Believe it or not, I have ben in Codependents Anonymous for year. It has helped tremendously, but once grand children came in to the picture it's been more difficult for me. My daughter loves to guilt and is very manipulative, and I still fall for it. I am back at step one: I am powerless over others, and my life has become unmanageable. I am holding the line at not letting her move in, and no my husband wants nothing to do with the baby. He's furious at the two fathers for not being responsible, which is why he doesn't want to shoulder that burden. I have caved in that I have a friend who has an apt. with a shared kitchen, and strict rules. If they work out an arrangement, I told my daughter I would pay 3 months rent, and she would have to take over, and I told my friend if my daughter doesn't honor her agreement, she needs to move out immediately. My daughter is on the list for subsidized housing, a 6-12 month wait and she has a college degree. Thanks for your input. I appreciate it. [/QUOTE]
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