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<blockquote data-quote="gwenny" data-source="post: 248707" data-attributes="member: 6852"><p>I went back to your post of Feb. 16 and wondered what had happened to you. Did you go back and look at our responses?<span style="color: Red"> I did and great advise was given but my husband says how can I talk to people about this.(hes very private) he is the type not to tell your business to anyone.</span></p><p>You need to get on the same page with-your husband. If you two parents can't come to an understanding, nothing you do with-your stepson will work out.</p><p>I don't know much about Risperidone but others here can help out with that.</p><p>Your stepson is still not paying attention, clearly, when you're teaching, so I don't know if it's the ADHD stuff of medications, or what. Then he freaks out and comes up with-excuses, when he can't perform. <span style="color: Red">hes on straterra for the adhd, but the past couple of weeks have not been so horrible with the homeschooling.</span></p><p>Do you know why he wasn't paying attention to begin with? Does he hate chemistry? Are the classes short or long, that is, 45 min., 1/2 hr, 2 hrs? He seems to need things in small time chunks. <span style="color: Red">he can do it he just refuses to when he wants.</span></p><p>That's all I can offer now, except that I understand your frustration.</p><p>You've got to get your husband alone, maybe for coffee somewhere, and hammer out a game plan.</p><p>My difficult child used to say I did all sorts of things, and vice versa, but now husband and I don't believe him--we always talk to one another when difficult child is out of earshot to compare stories.</p><p></p><p><span style="color: Red">I was homeschooling him when he first got here because of the attack on his father. he was not medicated at this point as we were trying to find dr's and get insurance for him. than it came to the point of packing my bags and leaving and than husband finally decided to take him to the hospital. the hospital than suggested that he go to a long term care facility but our insurance would not cover him. so we had to take him home. we put him in school and on the 4th day he was suspended and than threatened to kill another child. I just didnt want to take the chance of him doing that, so I sacraficed myself to home school him again, but told my husband that he needs to be supportive and help me and of course he said he would.</span></p><p><span style="color: Red"></span></p><p><span style="color: Red">Thank you for all your help I truely do appreciate it.</span></p><p><span style="color: Red"></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gwenny, post: 248707, member: 6852"] I went back to your post of Feb. 16 and wondered what had happened to you. Did you go back and look at our responses?[COLOR=Red] I did and great advise was given but my husband says how can I talk to people about this.(hes very private) he is the type not to tell your business to anyone.[/COLOR] You need to get on the same page with-your husband. If you two parents can't come to an understanding, nothing you do with-your stepson will work out. I don't know much about Risperidone but others here can help out with that. Your stepson is still not paying attention, clearly, when you're teaching, so I don't know if it's the ADHD stuff of medications, or what. Then he freaks out and comes up with-excuses, when he can't perform. [COLOR=Red]hes on straterra for the adhd, but the past couple of weeks have not been so horrible with the homeschooling.[/COLOR] Do you know why he wasn't paying attention to begin with? Does he hate chemistry? Are the classes short or long, that is, 45 min., 1/2 hr, 2 hrs? He seems to need things in small time chunks. [COLOR=Red]he can do it he just refuses to when he wants.[/COLOR] That's all I can offer now, except that I understand your frustration. You've got to get your husband alone, maybe for coffee somewhere, and hammer out a game plan. My difficult child used to say I did all sorts of things, and vice versa, but now husband and I don't believe him--we always talk to one another when difficult child is out of earshot to compare stories. [COLOR=Red]I was homeschooling him when he first got here because of the attack on his father. he was not medicated at this point as we were trying to find dr's and get insurance for him. than it came to the point of packing my bags and leaving and than husband finally decided to take him to the hospital. the hospital than suggested that he go to a long term care facility but our insurance would not cover him. so we had to take him home. we put him in school and on the 4th day he was suspended and than threatened to kill another child. I just didnt want to take the chance of him doing that, so I sacraficed myself to home school him again, but told my husband that he needs to be supportive and help me and of course he said he would. Thank you for all your help I truely do appreciate it. [/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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