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<blockquote data-quote="gwenny" data-source="post: 248769" data-attributes="member: 6852"><p>Thank you all for your great advice. We had difficult child admitted to a hospital for 7 days and they gave the diagnosis of mood disorder and adhd. They said he was moonlighting and he would need to stay longer, but of course the insurance we have do not cover more than 7 days so he came home. We left with a recomendation of putting him into a longterm care facility and serious counseling. So we found a MD Pysch doctor who we met with 2 times and she diagnosed him with ODD and Conduct disorder. </p><p></p><p>We than received the state insurance who said we have to get new doctor's because the one I see is private, so once again I made the appointment's got all the infor and attended the meeting last week and was hopeful as the woman saw right through him. Have not heard anything on the therapy as she said she was putting an action plan together and would find a therapist that could help us with all his problems. (is there anyone out there that can help him).</p><p></p><p>As for a Neuro psychiatric I was researching this to find out what it is and how to go about getting one. There's just never enough time in the day to do everything. I am the cook, chauffer for my son, laundry woman, sick from my illnesses I have (arthritis and no immune system due to medications). I just feel like where in god's name is my time. I feel like I can't leave my house because this child has stolen info from his mom and brother (social security #'s Creditcard #s.) What he will find when I'm not here. Than I have to take my son from his home, and than there is the dog who he I feel is just waiting to hurt.</p><p></p><p>As for my husband I have told him on more than one occasion that he is going to wind up going to prison if he does not do something. I feel that this child is definitly capable of harming me and this scares me to death. None of my friends know what to say except but to leave my husband.</p><p></p><p>I was a patient person who never got angry. I have faced many things in my life but I have always looked at it in a positive way. I just can't seem to be me anymore. I could never dream of going to the corner and have a cup of coffee with my husband because there would be no one to supervise difficult child. We tried this one time and he threatened to kill my son. </p><p></p><p>It's really hard to want to help someone who can do and say evil things to and about you. I am to a point where I just need to make a choice as what to do, leave or stay. If I leave than what kind of wife am I, and if I don't leave what a bad mom I am for having my son exposed to this. I just wish that I could hit the lottery and buy an island for my difficult child. Oops did I say that out loud.</p><p></p><p>I know I am rambling but my thoughts are going faster than my fingers.</p><p></p><p>I thank you all again for your wonderful unconditional help.</p><p></p><p>I say prayers everynight now with everyone in them that we can find the strength and courage.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gwenny, post: 248769, member: 6852"] Thank you all for your great advice. We had difficult child admitted to a hospital for 7 days and they gave the diagnosis of mood disorder and adhd. They said he was moonlighting and he would need to stay longer, but of course the insurance we have do not cover more than 7 days so he came home. We left with a recomendation of putting him into a longterm care facility and serious counseling. So we found a MD Pysch doctor who we met with 2 times and she diagnosed him with ODD and Conduct disorder. We than received the state insurance who said we have to get new doctor's because the one I see is private, so once again I made the appointment's got all the infor and attended the meeting last week and was hopeful as the woman saw right through him. Have not heard anything on the therapy as she said she was putting an action plan together and would find a therapist that could help us with all his problems. (is there anyone out there that can help him). As for a Neuro psychiatric I was researching this to find out what it is and how to go about getting one. There's just never enough time in the day to do everything. I am the cook, chauffer for my son, laundry woman, sick from my illnesses I have (arthritis and no immune system due to medications). I just feel like where in god's name is my time. I feel like I can't leave my house because this child has stolen info from his mom and brother (social security #'s Creditcard #s.) What he will find when I'm not here. Than I have to take my son from his home, and than there is the dog who he I feel is just waiting to hurt. As for my husband I have told him on more than one occasion that he is going to wind up going to prison if he does not do something. I feel that this child is definitly capable of harming me and this scares me to death. None of my friends know what to say except but to leave my husband. I was a patient person who never got angry. I have faced many things in my life but I have always looked at it in a positive way. I just can't seem to be me anymore. I could never dream of going to the corner and have a cup of coffee with my husband because there would be no one to supervise difficult child. We tried this one time and he threatened to kill my son. It's really hard to want to help someone who can do and say evil things to and about you. I am to a point where I just need to make a choice as what to do, leave or stay. If I leave than what kind of wife am I, and if I don't leave what a bad mom I am for having my son exposed to this. I just wish that I could hit the lottery and buy an island for my difficult child. Oops did I say that out loud. I know I am rambling but my thoughts are going faster than my fingers. I thank you all again for your wonderful unconditional help. I say prayers everynight now with everyone in them that we can find the strength and courage. [/QUOTE]
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