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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 428750"><p>Thank you all for your kind words.</p><p>I am glad also that difficult child's car was only $500. No power windows, no cd player, had rust. But it is gone now and I am back to being the taxi driver. He is really upset. Said it keeps playing through his mind over and over. He is looking for work, and offered his change jar. I do want him to feel some remorse for being inattentive and taking his eyes off the road. But I don't want him to dwell on it. Kind of touchy. Especially since I have been just losing control. </p><p> </p><p>All the big things happening...then little things like I go to open the bedroom shade and it falls off the wall. Then go to ope the curtain and that falls too.</p><p> </p><p>Our house is small, and with husband losing his job I MUST work. And there isn't work closer. I have been looking. Most offers I have had is only contract work and that is 40 miles away. I will need insurance once husband's job is gone. Right now they are looking at the shutdown being next fall.</p><p> </p><p>I did just get off the phone with the insurance company. (agent) It is nice that the agent is also my childhood friend. I feel so much better. He said everything will be ok. It will all be taken care of.</p><p> </p><p>I still have the fear of difficult child in a friends car now. That is an awful phone call to get, that your child has been in an accident. It plays through my head over and over, only in my dreams he is hurt. I am so afraid of him in a car. Do I keep him from driving now? Do I make him get back in and drive? (husband's car)</p><p>He said he never wants to drive again. Do I just let it go with no driving? Our state has the point system. This ticket was a lot of points. Don't want to risk any more points or he will lose his license. Thinking he needs to just not get behind the wheel for a while. But would that inexperience then come back and slap me in the face like everything else I try? I try to do things right and good, but it always has away to come back and bite me.</p><p> </p><p>Thank you for your kind words. I really, really needed that. Thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 428750"] Thank you all for your kind words. I am glad also that difficult child's car was only $500. No power windows, no cd player, had rust. But it is gone now and I am back to being the taxi driver. He is really upset. Said it keeps playing through his mind over and over. He is looking for work, and offered his change jar. I do want him to feel some remorse for being inattentive and taking his eyes off the road. But I don't want him to dwell on it. Kind of touchy. Especially since I have been just losing control. All the big things happening...then little things like I go to open the bedroom shade and it falls off the wall. Then go to ope the curtain and that falls too. Our house is small, and with husband losing his job I MUST work. And there isn't work closer. I have been looking. Most offers I have had is only contract work and that is 40 miles away. I will need insurance once husband's job is gone. Right now they are looking at the shutdown being next fall. I did just get off the phone with the insurance company. (agent) It is nice that the agent is also my childhood friend. I feel so much better. He said everything will be ok. It will all be taken care of. I still have the fear of difficult child in a friends car now. That is an awful phone call to get, that your child has been in an accident. It plays through my head over and over, only in my dreams he is hurt. I am so afraid of him in a car. Do I keep him from driving now? Do I make him get back in and drive? (husband's car) He said he never wants to drive again. Do I just let it go with no driving? Our state has the point system. This ticket was a lot of points. Don't want to risk any more points or he will lose his license. Thinking he needs to just not get behind the wheel for a while. But would that inexperience then come back and slap me in the face like everything else I try? I try to do things right and good, but it always has away to come back and bite me. Thank you for your kind words. I really, really needed that. Thank you. [/QUOTE]
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