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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 428756" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>((((hugs))))</p><p></p><p>I hear ya! Does not help that the katie thing tends to rub that "others break the rules, lie and cheat and get away with it thing either"</p><p></p><p>I've been doing this dirt poor thing for a life time. Ok let me put that better. There is poor, which I've done for a lifetime........then there are the periods it drops to dirt poor, doesn't ever seem to get over the poor area. lol And I laugh. Why on earth can I laugh? Because I let it go because I have no control over it. I do the very best with what I have, and the rest I refuse to worry about because I can't do more than I can do. Getting angry over it doesn't help the situation, it just makes me feel like crud. Getting sad over it doesn't help the situation, it again just makes me feel like crud. I can worry until the cows come home, but worrying isn't going to bring more money in either. </p><p></p><p>With those who break the rules and get rewarded, karma catches up with them eventually. I, on the other hand, have to live with myself. </p><p></p><p>As far as our house............that I had to get run over by a truck literally to get in the first place............we've been holding on by a thread for 2 yrs, a very fine thread at that. But in the end? It's just a house. I survived just fine before this house, I'll survive just fine should I no longer have it. It's just a material thing. As far as the bills........well, you can't get blood out of a stone. I do what I can and don't worry about what I can't. </p><p></p><p>Anger can often progress into depression. medications won't take your problems away, but they might help you to be able to look at them differently. </p><p></p><p>Be glad difficult child was not injured in the accident and let it go. Let him take that responsibility, not your worry or your headache. You can simply choose not to deal with the fall out. It can be liberating actually. </p><p></p><p>I do understand. And I'm not saying you've no reason to feel the way you feel. But since you're feeling this way maybe it's time to take a look at exactly why and see what changes can be made that will make it better......even if it's letting it go, or telling someone it's their problem and not yours, or how you look at it ect. </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 428756, member: 84"] ((((hugs)))) I hear ya! Does not help that the katie thing tends to rub that "others break the rules, lie and cheat and get away with it thing either" I've been doing this dirt poor thing for a life time. Ok let me put that better. There is poor, which I've done for a lifetime........then there are the periods it drops to dirt poor, doesn't ever seem to get over the poor area. lol And I laugh. Why on earth can I laugh? Because I let it go because I have no control over it. I do the very best with what I have, and the rest I refuse to worry about because I can't do more than I can do. Getting angry over it doesn't help the situation, it just makes me feel like crud. Getting sad over it doesn't help the situation, it again just makes me feel like crud. I can worry until the cows come home, but worrying isn't going to bring more money in either. With those who break the rules and get rewarded, karma catches up with them eventually. I, on the other hand, have to live with myself. As far as our house............that I had to get run over by a truck literally to get in the first place............we've been holding on by a thread for 2 yrs, a very fine thread at that. But in the end? It's just a house. I survived just fine before this house, I'll survive just fine should I no longer have it. It's just a material thing. As far as the bills........well, you can't get blood out of a stone. I do what I can and don't worry about what I can't. Anger can often progress into depression. medications won't take your problems away, but they might help you to be able to look at them differently. Be glad difficult child was not injured in the accident and let it go. Let him take that responsibility, not your worry or your headache. You can simply choose not to deal with the fall out. It can be liberating actually. I do understand. And I'm not saying you've no reason to feel the way you feel. But since you're feeling this way maybe it's time to take a look at exactly why and see what changes can be made that will make it better......even if it's letting it go, or telling someone it's their problem and not yours, or how you look at it ect. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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