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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 174973" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I remember you, and have wondered about you a number of times. I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. I am also sorry your ex is such a jerk. </p><p> </p><p>I totally agree about not letting him stay at the house. If staying there is the only way he will see the kids, it is best to deal with the loss now, before they think it is "normal" for daddy to only be there occasionally. I also think the other woman may be why he won't take the kids there. Wonder if he has children with-her, wants her to know he is not a great dad, or what the deal is, but I bet there is something.</p><p> </p><p>Ask everyone you know who got the better deal, them or their ex, then ask the name of the sharkiest lawyer. And KEEP A RECORD OF EVERYTHING - journal times he stands the kids up, or whatever he does with-them, amount of notice, every phone call, every expense with the house and the kids. Also move some $$$ out of joint accounts ASAP - much as you can. Check any savings, cds, whatever and liquidate what you can. Keep the $$ in a separate account. In YOUR name only. Otherwise he can liquidate it and leave you and the kids up a creek. Don't get caught up in fair. Be SMART for your KIDS. </p><p> </p><p>I have a friend with-four kids and when her ex left she was nice. She was fair. He took everything. Including the furniture one day while she was out. Then he served her with an eviction notice as the home was in his name - it was a deal with a buddy to buy it, and so he didn't put her name on the private loan. She just found out her ex made almost $15k on the sale of a house he told her that they lost $$ on. The orig owner sold it to another friend and by evicting her and the 4 kids, her ex got the $15k they had in equity.</p><p> </p><p>If your ex couldn't be trusted while you were married, he sure as sugar can't be trusted now.</p><p> </p><p>I hope the boys can adjust to the loss of their dad, and that you can move on in a positive way.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs,</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 174973, member: 1233"] I remember you, and have wondered about you a number of times. I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. I am also sorry your ex is such a jerk. I totally agree about not letting him stay at the house. If staying there is the only way he will see the kids, it is best to deal with the loss now, before they think it is "normal" for daddy to only be there occasionally. I also think the other woman may be why he won't take the kids there. Wonder if he has children with-her, wants her to know he is not a great dad, or what the deal is, but I bet there is something. Ask everyone you know who got the better deal, them or their ex, then ask the name of the sharkiest lawyer. And KEEP A RECORD OF EVERYTHING - journal times he stands the kids up, or whatever he does with-them, amount of notice, every phone call, every expense with the house and the kids. Also move some $$$ out of joint accounts ASAP - much as you can. Check any savings, cds, whatever and liquidate what you can. Keep the $$ in a separate account. In YOUR name only. Otherwise he can liquidate it and leave you and the kids up a creek. Don't get caught up in fair. Be SMART for your KIDS. I have a friend with-four kids and when her ex left she was nice. She was fair. He took everything. Including the furniture one day while she was out. Then he served her with an eviction notice as the home was in his name - it was a deal with a buddy to buy it, and so he didn't put her name on the private loan. She just found out her ex made almost $15k on the sale of a house he told her that they lost $$ on. The orig owner sold it to another friend and by evicting her and the 4 kids, her ex got the $15k they had in equity. If your ex couldn't be trusted while you were married, he sure as sugar can't be trusted now. I hope the boys can adjust to the loss of their dad, and that you can move on in a positive way. Hugs, [/QUOTE]
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