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<blockquote data-quote="ME &amp; THE BOYS" data-source="post: 175126" data-attributes="member: 3838"><p>Hello everyone,</p><p></p><p>Thank you so much for your thoughts, wishes...</p><p></p><p>Yes, it is very hard without my mom. I still can't believe she is gone. I want to call her, her to call me, go visit her. JUST HEAR AND SEE HER AGAIN.</p><p></p><p>The rules are different in Canada. I get half, despite what he did,,,, I may be able to get alittle more money for my son. B.S............ here! Hiring a tiger of a lawyer might only guarantee that "little extra money for my special needs son" and yet, that is iffy and I could pay a ton for him to fight on my behalf.</p><p></p><p>It stinks to think he could walk away with half and live with his mommy or whomever and I have to live off the same amount and support three of us. Got to love our laws. I have been to see four lawyers.</p><p></p><p>In addition to mourning my moms loss, I go back and fourth with how I feel about my marriage ending. I guess until he/I file for separation, it won't truly feel over. This makes for hard moments. I am in no rush to make things harder for myself "financially", so haven't filed. Moving my special needs child into smaller quarters to live, will only make things more stressful. He is extremely loud, hyper and picks on his brother (who now screams). I can't imagine neighbours banging on my door. </p><p></p><p>The arangement we have at current (only made up a week ago), I hope he keeps to. Atleast for the sake of my children. I placed a schedule on the fridge so they can view when daddy is staying over. I think this gives them something to look forward to and causes them less anxiety to see he is actually coming.</p><p></p><p>I much appreciate him coming to some degree (I get some relief and time for myself). I have been phycially exhausted for years with my S.N son. He has worn me right out. I wake up tired and go to bed tired.</p><p></p><p>I am going to have to look into new interests (job training),,,. I will have to support them.</p><p></p><p>I am so scared and sad (for both me and my boys).</p><p></p><p>p.s. On an up side, I took all our airmiles and booked us a Carribean Cruise in January.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ME & THE BOYS, post: 175126, member: 3838"] Hello everyone, Thank you so much for your thoughts, wishes... Yes, it is very hard without my mom. I still can't believe she is gone. I want to call her, her to call me, go visit her. JUST HEAR AND SEE HER AGAIN. The rules are different in Canada. I get half, despite what he did,,,, I may be able to get alittle more money for my son. B.S............ here! Hiring a tiger of a lawyer might only guarantee that "little extra money for my special needs son" and yet, that is iffy and I could pay a ton for him to fight on my behalf. It stinks to think he could walk away with half and live with his mommy or whomever and I have to live off the same amount and support three of us. Got to love our laws. I have been to see four lawyers. In addition to mourning my moms loss, I go back and fourth with how I feel about my marriage ending. I guess until he/I file for separation, it won't truly feel over. This makes for hard moments. I am in no rush to make things harder for myself "financially", so haven't filed. Moving my special needs child into smaller quarters to live, will only make things more stressful. He is extremely loud, hyper and picks on his brother (who now screams). I can't imagine neighbours banging on my door. The arangement we have at current (only made up a week ago), I hope he keeps to. Atleast for the sake of my children. I placed a schedule on the fridge so they can view when daddy is staying over. I think this gives them something to look forward to and causes them less anxiety to see he is actually coming. I much appreciate him coming to some degree (I get some relief and time for myself). I have been phycially exhausted for years with my S.N son. He has worn me right out. I wake up tired and go to bed tired. I am going to have to look into new interests (job training),,,. I will have to support them. I am so scared and sad (for both me and my boys). p.s. On an up side, I took all our airmiles and booked us a Carribean Cruise in January. [/QUOTE]
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