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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 179299" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Hello and welcome back.</p><p>First off, sending very gentle {{{{{HUGS}}}}} your way.</p><p></p><p>BBK hit the nail on the head. </p><p>Your H is a jerk. And you can't control him. You can only control what YOU do and how you react to his behaviour.</p><p></p><p>I would strongly recommend setting ground rules about visiting. First off, it should NOT be at your house. He needs to have a scheduled time to pick up and drop off the children. It's up to him to make arrangements and follow through with the rules.</p><p></p><p>When you were together, he left you miserable while he carried on and had fun. Now that you're separated, he's continuing to treat you the same way. You can't let him.</p><p></p><p>As BBK said, if he can't make proper arrangements to be with his kids, then perhaps he doesn't need to be involved in their lives right now.</p><p></p><p>Sorry things are so rotten right now.</p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 179299, member: 3907"] Hello and welcome back. First off, sending very gentle {{{{{HUGS}}}}} your way. BBK hit the nail on the head. Your H is a jerk. And you can't control him. You can only control what YOU do and how you react to his behaviour. I would strongly recommend setting ground rules about visiting. First off, it should NOT be at your house. He needs to have a scheduled time to pick up and drop off the children. It's up to him to make arrangements and follow through with the rules. When you were together, he left you miserable while he carried on and had fun. Now that you're separated, he's continuing to treat you the same way. You can't let him. As BBK said, if he can't make proper arrangements to be with his kids, then perhaps he doesn't need to be involved in their lives right now. Sorry things are so rotten right now. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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