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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 254844" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Bran, Please stop and take some slow deep breaths. Just concentrate on taking slow deep breaths and letting them come out taking all that frantic energy with them.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry this person is alarming you so terribly. it seems like either your daughter was reaching out and changed her mind or else it is a very mean "prank". I do know that in our town we have had a few fraternities that "pranked" other people's parents using this service. </p><p></p><p>PLEASE don't beat yourself up for not being there when the call came in. You simply CANNOT stop living because your teenage daughter ran away. It is just not healthy for you or anyone in your family. </p><p></p><p>Today you cannot do much more. Take conscious hold of your mind and decide what you can handle in your families' best interest right now. Then focus on whatever that it (your son may need some special attention because he will KNOW that something is wrong. PLEASE make sure you spend some time just focusing on him. It isn't healthy to only focus on B. Son will be very afraid knowing something is wrong but not what. Kids always imagine the very worst.)</p><p></p><p>whatever is going on, you simply cannot do ANYTHING until B is willing to talk to you. If she is sleeping you are going to have to wait. i am not sure any laws were broken, but contacting the police is one option. they may have more info on this service and/or be able to track the number more effectively.</p><p></p><p>Right this minute it sounds as though you are freaking out and B is having a nice rest. Doesn't seem like the proper state of things, though many a difficult child would like it. When your sis can contact B you might suggest she offer a "code" word that B could use ONLY if she were in danger and needed rescuing. Something B would NOT share iwth anyone else, IF you can TRUST her not to use this word frivolously - it should mean she wants to come out of the life and get real help. Or whatever meaning you put behind it, just something that sounds fairly "normal" but she wouldn't really use. maybe "the nachos with the guacamole" or something. It is just a thought. But it is something to be used very cautiously, so I am not sure whether it is a tool she can handle at this time.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, we are here with you and sis. Your sis is a great Auntie, and you are a great mom. You learned a whole lot about the service and the number. There is not much you can do from here with-o some help from B.</p><p></p><p>Gentle, gentle hugs for all of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 254844, member: 1233"] Bran, Please stop and take some slow deep breaths. Just concentrate on taking slow deep breaths and letting them come out taking all that frantic energy with them. I am sorry this person is alarming you so terribly. it seems like either your daughter was reaching out and changed her mind or else it is a very mean "prank". I do know that in our town we have had a few fraternities that "pranked" other people's parents using this service. PLEASE don't beat yourself up for not being there when the call came in. You simply CANNOT stop living because your teenage daughter ran away. It is just not healthy for you or anyone in your family. Today you cannot do much more. Take conscious hold of your mind and decide what you can handle in your families' best interest right now. Then focus on whatever that it (your son may need some special attention because he will KNOW that something is wrong. PLEASE make sure you spend some time just focusing on him. It isn't healthy to only focus on B. Son will be very afraid knowing something is wrong but not what. Kids always imagine the very worst.) whatever is going on, you simply cannot do ANYTHING until B is willing to talk to you. If she is sleeping you are going to have to wait. i am not sure any laws were broken, but contacting the police is one option. they may have more info on this service and/or be able to track the number more effectively. Right this minute it sounds as though you are freaking out and B is having a nice rest. Doesn't seem like the proper state of things, though many a difficult child would like it. When your sis can contact B you might suggest she offer a "code" word that B could use ONLY if she were in danger and needed rescuing. Something B would NOT share iwth anyone else, IF you can TRUST her not to use this word frivolously - it should mean she wants to come out of the life and get real help. Or whatever meaning you put behind it, just something that sounds fairly "normal" but she wouldn't really use. maybe "the nachos with the guacamole" or something. It is just a thought. But it is something to be used very cautiously, so I am not sure whether it is a tool she can handle at this time. Anyway, we are here with you and sis. Your sis is a great Auntie, and you are a great mom. You learned a whole lot about the service and the number. There is not much you can do from here with-o some help from B. Gentle, gentle hugs for all of you. [/QUOTE]
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