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Someone tell me what to do...world fell apart tonight
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 499648" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>1. Believe NOTHING, not one word, of what comes out of Buck's mouth. Church may or may not have been involved in the rental of his home and the sale of the car. This man is manipulative as all get out, and he's known for not being truthful. </p><p></p><p>2. Taking care of family is a wonderful thing, when it DOESN'T distroy your family, emotionally, mentally, physically OR financially in the process. Your IMMEDIATE family needs come FIRST above extended family needs. Like it or not, as an adult, Buck is EXTENDED family, not immediate. You and Tony are not in a position financially to take on the burden that is Buck, and it's already obvious the emotional / mental toll it's taking. </p><p></p><p>Buck made his own life the way it is, the time has come for him to feel some consequences for his past behavior. If he returns to drugs, then that is his choice. You and Tony (as in TONY) are not responsible for this grown adult. If he's in such a hard way, why is he not contacting the church that helped him so much in the past to help him again? (I strongly suspect he wore out his welcome in that dept long ago as well) There are other churches he can turn to for help if his won't step up. </p><p></p><p>I can't tell you what to do Janet. Your health issues complicate the situation. If husband pulled this on me, I'd have walked out the door so fast he'd have whiplash. He knew it, never pushed it. I feel the same as you about my home.</p><p></p><p>Praying hard for you and Tony, my friend. </p><p></p><p>((((hugs))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 499648, member: 84"] 1. Believe NOTHING, not one word, of what comes out of Buck's mouth. Church may or may not have been involved in the rental of his home and the sale of the car. This man is manipulative as all get out, and he's known for not being truthful. 2. Taking care of family is a wonderful thing, when it DOESN'T distroy your family, emotionally, mentally, physically OR financially in the process. Your IMMEDIATE family needs come FIRST above extended family needs. Like it or not, as an adult, Buck is EXTENDED family, not immediate. You and Tony are not in a position financially to take on the burden that is Buck, and it's already obvious the emotional / mental toll it's taking. Buck made his own life the way it is, the time has come for him to feel some consequences for his past behavior. If he returns to drugs, then that is his choice. You and Tony (as in TONY) are not responsible for this grown adult. If he's in such a hard way, why is he not contacting the church that helped him so much in the past to help him again? (I strongly suspect he wore out his welcome in that dept long ago as well) There are other churches he can turn to for help if his won't step up. I can't tell you what to do Janet. Your health issues complicate the situation. If husband pulled this on me, I'd have walked out the door so fast he'd have whiplash. He knew it, never pushed it. I feel the same as you about my home. Praying hard for you and Tony, my friend. ((((hugs)))) [/QUOTE]
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